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  1. lotheriel79

    A life alien to your own (Our Blog)

    Hmm.. What do you know? THAT did the trick. That whole can't move on problem has been very well taken care of. All feeling is long gone now. Love, Trust, Respect... Gone. DONE.
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    from a triangle to a V: how?

    But love is a drug, and we are all addicts. You can't just simply stop because you know it will hurt you, and playing that way is playing dirty and will get you no where but hurt worse in the end and eaten up with your own guilt. And THAT hurts worse. Let me suggest that LOVE takes many...
  3. lotheriel79

    A life alien to your own (Our Blog)

    Our 15 yr old did ask me after the first visit with "M" with almost a sad hope in her eye if things were back to "Normal" with "M". I told her I was not sure, but that I honestly hope they will be again one day. She got up and she hugged me and said " I know, mom." "M" became part of our...
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    A life alien to your own (Our Blog)

    My turn My turn! lol Well seeing as I was forced against my will to leave the comfort of my cozy blankets this morning... lol... here is MY update, kinda playing off Kris's update a bit. Let's see. I will start with "M"'s first visit to see me in for flipping ever. When I walked in from work...
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    A life alien to your own (Our Blog)

    When I find myself in times of trouble, mother Mary comes to me, speaking words of wisdom, let it be. And in my hour of darkness she is standing right in front of me, speaking words of wisdom, let it be. Let it be, let it be, let it be, let it be. Whisper words of wisdom, let it be. And when...
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    from a triangle to a V: how?

    Oh God Honey I am so sorry. Trust me I know exactly what you are going through, but from another end of the triangle, as the wife that fell into unrequited love. I fell so in love with our "M". Kris loved us both. But "M" fell in love with Kris only. She tried and it hurt to watch her try to...
  7. lotheriel79

    A life alien to your own (Our Blog)

    I ADORE this and I will carry this with me forever. Thankyou. :)
  8. lotheriel79

    A life alien to your own (Our Blog)

    Group cuddles were the the best though. It's one of the things I miss the most. Because being held by 2 sets of arms.. being smothered in the safe loving feeling was intoxicating. But separate, when there are 3 and not 4.. someone will always get left out, and that is the truth of it. As long...
  9. lotheriel79

    A life alien to your own (Our Blog)

    Im in desperate need for someone to slap me right now. It's taking every ounce of my being to NOT text her and tell her I love her. I can't seem to get her off my mind today. I HAVE to find a way to stop loving her. But I did.. I do.. I always will, regardless of everything. I MUST find a way...
  10. lotheriel79

    A life alien to your own (Our Blog)

    Sigh... Im so confused. @ BlackUnicorn- I am so happy you got a chance to join our little universe! LOL. Advice from someone on your side of the triads would be very helpful. So new developments and my thoughts on them... We are no longer talking to one of our "serious" prospects from...
  11. lotheriel79

    Tats & Piercings?

    Kris and I have multiple of each, but our newest matching tatt we just got last week of the infinity Heart on our wrists-- advertising , if you will. ;) and it has already done well in serving its purpose!! XD
  12. lotheriel79

    New in Houston

    I was unaware of any groups... It would be nice to get involved in one, though.
  13. lotheriel79

    New in Houston

    Hi guys! My husband and I are in College Station, but from Houston and go back all the time. Nice to meet you all!! :)
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    Texas

    I agree there are alot in Austin I have found in our search for our next unicorn. I am shocked there are not more in Houston... NOT so shocked about College Station, however. I am Magik's wife, BTW- Nice to meet you :)
  15. lotheriel79

    How do you know?

    Ahh but the busy was so nice. Now it seems quiet and sad. But we will move on, and perhaps it will work eventually for us. When love happens you have to be ready and willing to work for it. If you're not it is not really love, is it?
  16. lotheriel79

    Unrequited love between metamours

    My situation exactly God I thought you were quoting my situation word for word. I DO still love deeply our "M", and she too grabbed my heart in similar ways. I still have the note she wrote to me back in the start of our triad and look at it all the time. It was so sweet. SHE was so sweet. How...
  17. lotheriel79

    How do you know?

    I understand completley First off let me say I am magik's wife, and I understand EXACTLY what you mean and how you feel. when we started our triad it was that- both of us together, and in all honesty, while I was curious because I had never been with another woman, I more figured I would...
  18. lotheriel79

    A life alien to your own (Our Blog)

    Do NOT keep your feelings to yourself. That is what I am here for and everyone else here too... We can help you sort out those thoughts. Love can mess up a persons rational mind quite a bit, and that is NOT a bad thing!!!
  19. lotheriel79

    A life alien to your own (Our Blog)

    I agree, and I have been ok with stepping back. I thought we should have given her space after we had our group talk that ended it, and new that over time I could still have a friendship with her and it would not have been odd. Then I saw how badly kris was handling it, and I started to...
  20. lotheriel79

    A life alien to your own (Our Blog)

    I see what you mean, and I will speak for myself: See when we started this it really was- FOR ALL OF US- nothing more than sex. A fun threesome, and I myself (seeing as I was SOOOOO MONO) HAD to think of her as nothing more than a toy to make myself ok with it. I did not know her at all before...
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