For me, I am out of the loop on social media. When I read discord, I had to look it up. Never heard of it. I just keep in my shell and get on here. No Facebook, no discord, etc. just a nice quiet Poly.com. 😄
I am sorry you are having difficulty. My wife has been searching for a year and a half. She found a keeper, then he got transferred 800 miles. She gets discouraged..sometimes she thinks about just giving it up. I am glad she keeps trying. There are positive folks out there.
While I have no issues sharing thing with wife or gf, I don’t. It is an issue of respect for each one. I do my best to No make comparisons. Each relationship is independent. In the same manner my partners need not to compare themselves to the other.
You are the most important person right now. I understand the move toward dissatisfaction in the LS. I observed that many time. Trying to figure out motivations is difficult. Most of us have one or two people we can spill our guts to. Look at the people in your life. Evaluate them to see if...