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  1. kdt26417

    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    3:10 p.m., Friday the 24th I'm off to a late start today, but the forum isn't very busy, so maybe I'll have enough extra time to play another bot game ... yay? So one of the few bad things about this house is that we have roaches. I saw three today ... or maybe I just saw one, and it got...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    2:35 p.m., Thursday the 23rd I played another bot game yesterday, I think the bot's name was David. I won but wow, what a painful, awful game. He kicked my ass until the very end. I don't know what's happening to me, I was playing 1500-point bots and winning, now I can barely win against any...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    1:04 p.m., Wednesday the 22nd It looks like today's high was actually 75°, and we had rain in the morning. I have turned the ceiling fan off in my room, and left my light on. And the highs for the next week are predicted to peak out in the mid-80's. No 90's. All in all a pretty good deal...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    2:42 p.m., Tuesday the 21st I'm fresh out of liquor today, sigh. It was fun while it lasted. So the forecast for today canceled the predicted rain, and the high is predicted to be 76°. Not as great as what it was saying yesterday, but still pretty darn good. Tomorrow is also supposed to peak...
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    Poly Triad help

    Hello KiraK85, It sounds like you need to sit down with this girlfriend, and have a heart-to-heart conversation with her. You definitely need to have a girls' night out with her. I get the impression that she is more into your husband than she is into you. You need to decide if that's a...
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    Hi Hi

    Greetings Loon, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. You will be able to make friends here, I am a friend if you will have me. There's so much to learn about polyamory! Have a look around our site and see what calls to you, post any questions you may have. I'm glad you...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    12:41 p.m., Monday the 20th So today's forecast actually predicts a high of 68° tomorrow, no doubt because of the rain. And other factors, I'm sure. I'm going to enjoy it! The Fireball is all gone, now I am working on the Jäger. Life is good.
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    12:26 p.m., Sunday the 19th ... and we got some more rain this morning. Perfect! I mean it's good that it didn't rain while I was out walking ... but we've still been getting lots of rain. I know July and August are "monsoon season" in Albuquerque, but wow! we are really lucking out. I checked...
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    Living my truth and it hurts

    Hello Crystal1990, Searching for poly people to date is usually harder for men than it is for women, so your husband should not feel that there is something wrong with him that he isn't having much luck on the apps. As for your partner, you are experiencing NRE with him, you are going to want...
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    Can I be the platonic partner?

    Hello MelloHippie, Of course you can be the platonic partner, you can be anything you want. You are actually thinking of something called a V, it is when your husband is a "hinge" and has two partners, you and your close friend. While you and your close friend have a warm relationship with each...
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    I feel guilty and deceived. Their open marriage seems like a bandaid, and I got my heart shattered.

    Hello GlitterHorse, I am concerned that the 34nb person initially told you they could only see you once a week due to work schedules, only to later admit it was a rule in their relationship with their 34f spouse. Let's be honest, the 34nb person lied to you. It sounds like there were multiple...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    I kept thinking I hadn't walked far enough, or that perhaps I was remembering wrong about Albertsons being on that street. Sigh. Overlooking a whole grocery store? I just can't wrap my mind around it. No wonder I have troubles in Chess. Yeah we had our electric panel upgraded a few days ago...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    3:42 p.m., Saturday the 18th We have a couple more days of rain forecasted for the coming week. Let's hope the forecast is right! On Tuesday the high is supposed to be less than 70°. Wouldn't that be a treat! Sigh. So as it turns out, the Albertsons in question was not at all far (going north...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    6:13 p.m., Friday the 17th We actually got some rain today! first time in like for-ever. A little lightning and thunder too. Good stuff. We shopped at Walmart yesterday, it is a Walmart Neighborhood Market and is within rather close walking distance. Unfortunately it doesn't carry alcohol, so...
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    Need Some Advice

    Hello Alex, It sounds like you are thinking about forming a quad configuration, one where you have a girlfriend local to you, your "main" has her husband (in Europe much of the time), and the four of you share each other with each other. (Hopefully that was coherent on my part.) You really...
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    First Date Night

    Hello ForEverTheirs, In my V, when the three of us go out together, it is usually for dinner at a restaurant. Once in a while we go on a road trip. We even go see a movie at a theater, but that's something we haven't done in quite a while. Good luck and have fun, Kevin T.
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    2:33 p.m., Thursday the 16th So, BH and SB are about to go on a two-week trip to Michigan; if I remember right, their plane takes off on 7:09 a.m. this Saturday (the day after tomorrow). Latest word from SB is that she and I will go shopping tonight so that I have meals for the next fortnight...
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    help w figuring this out

    Hello styx_, It sounds like R is into you, they are kind of poking at your shyness in an affectionate way. You need to start talking to them about how the two of you want to take things. Something like, "Hey R, I'm kind of into you, do you feel the same about me? Do you want to have a closed...
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    She's Conflicted

    Hello Firepit, I think you are doing fine by supporting her either way, the rest is up to her. If she decides to explore poly, it is reasonable for you to request the same. Here are some jealousy links: What If I Get Jealous? Unmasking the Green-Eyed Monster "First Aid" for Jealousy Jealousy...
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    Western Washington

    Greetings Kait, glad you're with us.