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  1. Mohegan

    Which way to turn?

    Thanks Leetah. It's been quite a journey over the years.
  2. Mohegan

    Which way to turn?

    It seems like forever since I have been here. I have spent the day rereading the blogs of Karma, Cricket and Pixie. As well as my own. Gods it all seems like a lifetime ago. I left Karma 11 months ago. When I reread the blogs of his exes, especially Cricket, I hate who I was then. So under...
  3. Mohegan

    How do you tell someone else's kids?

    Thank you RainygrlJenny, Karma and I were just reading this together and couldn't have responded better ourselves. You pretty much covered what we were thinking. To us g/f doesn't equate sex, especially for my brother and his wife who stayed virgins until marriage 6 years (or more I don't...
  4. Mohegan

    How do you tell someone else's kids?

    Pixi won't be there, it will be my brother and his wife and Karma and I. For my brother and I it's because there were always a lot of secrets in our family. There was a lot of don't tell so and so this, or things that were blatantly obvious but never discussed. It left us very confused and with...
  5. Mohegan

    Wide Awake

    That was really beautiful and I'm glad you guys were able to really talk. The truth is definitely a bitter pill sometimes, but some of those talks and bitter pills are what saved my marriage. You're right, we get so caught up in how things should/could/would be and we end up losing the actual...
  6. Mohegan

    How do you tell someone else's kids?

    Thank you both. I really appreciate the peace of mind knowing I was on the right track. She is ridiculously intelligent and perceptive (which of course has us all frightened for her teenage years) so I wouldn't be surprised if she's already put it together and just isn't sure how to equate it to...
  7. Mohegan

    How do you tell someone else's kids?

    I've spent a good while searching around and am not finding exactly what I am looking for. My 4yr old niece recently met Pixi. For those who haven't read our blogs, Pixi is my husband Karma's g/f of a few months. My brother and his wife have known and supported us in this adventure from day one...
  8. Mohegan

    Which way to turn?

    What an interesting phone call I just had. So while the kids were in town, as I mentioned earlier, my niece asked if Pixi lived in our garage. None of us could figure out where this came from. Tonight they were watching The Help for the second time and my niece said something about "See mommy...
  9. Mohegan

    Which way to turn?

    Very good points. I think it caught me so off guard because I have no issue explaining it to adults. I have several medical problems that would make carrying and caring for a child very difficult. Karma and I are both very worried about the genetic background of both families so that plays a...
  10. Mohegan

    Which way to turn?

    On an unrelated note, I'm about to head to bed and realized I didn't really update too much from my family being in town. Mostly the adorableness of the kids. My niece had several interesting questions and perspectives: Are you and Uncle Karma married? Do you have kids? why not? I had a hard...
  11. Mohegan

    Which way to turn?

    FullofLove- I really love your direct way of writing and appreciate the advice. I joke sometimes that I'm going to make my millions by inventing perfume that smells like a computer. I've definitely walked out naked and requested his 'attention' to be ignored for the computer. You're right, it...
  12. Mohegan

    Which way to turn?

    You bring up very good points SNeacail, I've missed your input while I was away :). I think I'm just tired of having to do that. The first few times I did bring it up to him. Like our anniversary I said " I know you haven't seen her all weekend but this is supposed to be our time.I'm trying not...
  13. Mohegan

    Which way to turn?

    It appears I still have some residual baggage from Cricket. I've been putting off bringing up an issue with Pixi out of fear of her reaction. With us moving, we're all little out of sorts in one way or another. But I finally brought it up today, and big surprise it was fine. Karma has this...
  14. Mohegan

    Which way to turn?

    FullofLove1052-LOL! 17 hrs rarely ever happens. I have fibromyalgia and between packing and seeing the family and days on end with little to no sleep, I completely wore myself out. I feel so much pain for Karma. My family has always been my heart and soul. My grandparents were huge influences in...
  15. Mohegan

    Which way to turn?

    The meeting went well. The kids really took to Pixi. Including my niece asking Pixi to braid her hair and then braid Uncle Karma's. It was adorable! My brother and sister in law both had good things to say about her. They were in town to help me get my business started and that went well. And...
  16. Mohegan

    Which way to turn?

    Exciting things in our world. We're moving in about a week. It will put us closer to my family and give us a new start in a new town. We're all pretty excited. The goal is to get Pixi moved up there in a few months. And my brother and his family are coming in tomorrow. We're introducing them to...
  17. Mohegan

    Which way to turn?

    Not a bad idea. I think at the moment my big issue is that we all have very similar and linked hobbies. So what used to be a me and Karma thing is now an everyone thing. Which is great for the most part. But in losing that 'us' time, there was nothing added in to make up for it. So I'm sharing...
  18. Mohegan

    Which way to turn?

    At a place I'm not very comfortable with. I'm feeling incredibly selfish and suffocated. I love that Karma and Pixie are happy. I love we are all getting along. I'm just having a moment of wanting MY husband and MY house and MY friends and MY club and MY space. I don't want to see them chatting...
  19. Mohegan

    Which way to turn?

    I love how the whole tone of my blog has changed since we've been back on here. I'm so excited to have a metamour I can actually talk to. Who isn't so insecure to take everything as an attack, but actually talks about things. Poor Pixi got caught in the middle of Karma and I fighting yesterday...
  20. Mohegan

    Which way to turn?

    I love growth. I love when flowers and vegetables grow, I love when children grow, I love when people grow and I really love when I grow. I love to learn. I love to gain perspective. The other night Karma and Pixi went out with a friend of ours. I haven't seen this friend in quite awhile and...
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