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  1. MtnPolyLoversX2

    Poly lost in the sex shuffle

    We do both actually because we do see the “Poly couples” followed by (almost always) staring with Bi female and Couples (couples as in making sure he gets his too) Or shared profile we definitely get a lot of “would she join us” messages and the very few times we tried to meet a couple in a...
  2. MtnPolyLoversX2

    Non transparency on Poly couple

    Just own it…. If you lie because you get more matches, and you enjoy that attention/engagement/practice? That’s fine. I’m not judging….. I don’t think that’s the intention I was going for but I can see your point on it , unintended consequences of just taking a different approach. Their seems...
  3. MtnPolyLoversX2

    Non transparency on Poly couple

    I sort of did it as a experiment for my partners curiosity has well . I had a profile with the same exact pictures all of me and a few of us. Nothing shirtless or provocative and made it clear we are a Polyamarous couple , tried to add in that we weren’t unicorn hunting for a 3way experience but...
  4. MtnPolyLoversX2

    Non transparency on Poly couple

    We just might give that okay Cupid one a try . Trust me I see the messages my partner gets daily . It’s a real shame and I just don’t know or understand when the tides shifted that how men started acting on these sites became the norm . It’s exhausting for her and us We were on one called...
  5. MtnPolyLoversX2

    Non transparency on Poly couple

    I agree with you but as my partner has said and actually a few single women agreed as a Male on a dating site the odds are automatically not stacked in your favor, unfortunately we are in a world where people have already made a judgment about you based on your skin color or sexuality . And I...
  6. MtnPolyLoversX2

    Non transparency on Poly couple

    Morally I known it’s wrong , I’m justifying it but I’m also very surprised how many women have has positive things to say about my approach . A lot have agreed if I was upfront from the start I would of never got the time of day but they enjoyed the time together and me being a gentlemen. They...
  7. MtnPolyLoversX2

    Non transparency on Poly couple

    so I’m just guessing like a lot of you singles / couples, we use Dating apps . Obviously not the best way to meet likeminded people (plenty of unicorn hunters) but with our jobs and professional lives it just is a matter of time and convenience We have a shared profile, well as she has her own...
  8. MtnPolyLoversX2

    Poly lost in the sex shuffle

    You’re 100% correct . I really think what men view as Polyamarous (really just a open / swinger relationship) is pushed on the female partner and she’s just going along with it to keep him happy Sex is already easy enough to get so going after Polyamarous couples just tells us they have no...
  9. MtnPolyLoversX2

    Poly lost in the sex shuffle

    I’ve been enjoying life with my female partner . We are both openly bisexual and we are not a “Closet Poly” couple . We are also open to all people (not just MFF like a lot of dudes have wet dreams about) I don’t know about the rest of you happy Polyamarous couples but their seems to be no...
  10. MtnPolyLoversX2

    Infinity heart tattoo etiquette

    Yes! And thank you! You are correct that was a frustrating time for myself well as I do believe a lot of other couples when their was a lot of turmoil going on in the world and I probably took it more personal than I should of but I won’t hide my faults and not pretend this is a perfect world...
  11. MtnPolyLoversX2

    FMF v. MFM disparity?

    It’s probably been mentioned but to be honest I’m too lazy and ADHD to read through every reply but the Unicorn hunting is common to a lot of men that have a OPP (one penis policy) Now does that make me a hypocrite that I am in a Open Triad FMF relationship? Both partners openly date other men...
  12. MtnPolyLoversX2

    Infinity heart tattoo etiquette

    Thank you! I’m glad someone else sees that concern and valid too. Cheeky yes but their already so many narrow minded folks towards Polyamarous men and women . Mixed opinions from our partners as well
  13. MtnPolyLoversX2

    It frustrates me that I might never find a boyfriend?

    Seems this society is more and more obsessed with unnatural beauty that it’s the only thing that matters anymore. I see dating profiles from women and men along the lines of “must have a chiseled chest , had to be 6ft tall, must have blue eyes and so forth” Some mens profiles .”must be skinny...
  14. MtnPolyLoversX2

    Infinity heart tattoo etiquette

    I’m in a beautiful Triad relationship that’s been going very well and cheesy as it might be we went and got infinity Heart tattoos but out of all 3 mine is the most Basic so I’ll be going back in to get more detail , highlights , some shading (my skin doesn’t take color well) but I want to add...
  15. MtnPolyLoversX2

    Women’s misunderstandings of Poly , How to inform them ?

    Good point but those horror stories are the same reasons a lot of them don’t trust males in any capacity. Obviously looking for love in all the wrong places and maybe a little blowing off steam …. No one said this lifestyle was perfect or fair
  16. MtnPolyLoversX2

    Women’s misunderstandings of Poly , How to inform them ?

    I’ve heard plenty of stories from Poly couples of how the husband / boyfriend went out and cheated with multiple women just for their argument to be “well we are Poly right” . Or as mentioned before a lot od insecure men’s view of Poly is a Bi hot female that wants to be with them both , “No...
  17. MtnPolyLoversX2

    Women’s misunderstandings of Poly , How to inform them ?

    Thank you for all your help. This is just my opinion for what it’s worth but I guess I’m surprised even when it seems more couples are going to Open / Non monogamous relationships that how misinformed people are when it comes to Poly relationships. I’m sure their are a lot of men that use the...
  18. MtnPolyLoversX2

    Women’s misunderstandings of Poly , How to inform them ?

    I have recently had some very nice respectful conversation with single women. I’m transparent from the start of conversation. Honesty and full disclosure but I keep running into this typical response to me being Poly … “oh you just want to have sex with as many women as possible” or “I’m not...
  19. MtnPolyLoversX2

    Getting through the low times

    I don’t know where you’re from but Covid is quickly sweeping through the USA I do believe lock downs are coming again sooner than later and it’s already putting relationships, partnerships and friendships to the test . Unfortunately I think people are mentally preparing themselves for what’s to...
  20. MtnPolyLoversX2

    Back to being single / meeting new couples

    I can understand why a lot of couples don’t welcome single men into their dynamic . Bottom line a lot of single men have ruined it for a lot of people. I’ve been in the lifestyle since I was 17 I’m 42 now . I can remember when one swinger group in particular had to eventually ban single men for...
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