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  1. Bluebird

    Poly and Potential Positive Partners

    I have always and continue to be, negative for both HSV 1 & 2. Both of my husbands are also negative. I have always asked for a full panel of testing that included these viruses so I could speak definitively on my status when dating. I am now on the brink of starting up with a new partner who...
  2. Bluebird


    When your sudoku book is in your husband's bedroom in the basement, but you're in your other husband's room, two flights up from there. That's my morning! :) Anyone else have some silly poly problems to share?
  3. Bluebird

    Photo album issues

    All of a sudden I can't upload photos to my album. The link has completely disappeared as an option. This is true on my laptop running Windows, using Chrome as a browser and on my iPhone 6.
  4. Bluebird

    How We Did It - A Handfasting Commitment Ceremony

    A lot of this can be found in my online journal, in the blog section of this site, but I thought a searchable thread on the topic of commitment ceremonies would be useful. Wading through all the drama (and the mundane stuff) that brought me to this wonderful day isn't for everyone - so having a...
  5. Bluebird

    Resources for Mono/Poly Relationships

    PunkRockAwesomesauce has told me he wants to get himself into a good mindset about me dating again. He isn't vehemently opposed to the idea and he says he accepts me being poly as an important part of my personality. However, he's never had to experience being with someone who is dating others...
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    Looking for commitment ceremony ideas and counsel. My boyfriend, known here as PunkRockAwesomesauce, has been bringing up the idea of having a commitment ceremony. This has always been something I wanted, as we are a polyfi V and symbols are important to me. However, I feel rather at a loss...
  7. Bluebird

    Anyone attending the Poly Living Philadelphia event? It's in February. I think PunkRock and I are going to attend, and I'm urging DarkKnight to come with us.
  8. Bluebird

    US Poly Laws or, Where are all the poly friendly places?

    One of the things I am really working on now is a long term plan, and well, that involves moving. We live in a less expensive part of Maryland currently, but it is still fairly pricey. My husband has a job that will let us live anywhere in the US, as long as he can get fast internet, and my...
  9. Bluebird

    Facebook Status

    Right now my Facebook status is set as "Married to Bluebird's husband." Lately we have been discussing switching that to say "In an Open Relationship." My question is, if I do this, is there an option to list my other partner? Or will it still just allow me to say "In an Open Relationship with...
  10. Bluebird

    Birth Control and Polyfidelity

    My boyfriend M and I have not been able to have penetrative sex yet, since we are still awaiting his STD test results. He should be good to go soon, so we are having an overnight on Friday. (Yay! Can't wait.) We have had a lot of discussions surrounding birth control, and I am still wondering if...
  11. Bluebird

    Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

    I've tried to start a blog here quite a few times, but always get distracted before hitting submit. Hopefully by beginning with a bit of cut and paste from my already existing threads, I can at least get the first entry here off into the ether, finally! My husband and I started talking about...
  12. Bluebird

    Confusing Start - 1 week

    So, I had my first date last night, dinner and a movie, with a single guy that both my husband and I have been friends with for about a year. He knows us both separately, and as a couple. I thought it went really well, as we were both really flirty and I thought we had great chemistry. He...
  13. Bluebird

    Opening Up

    Hello! My husband of 7 years and I just began talking about opening our relationship up late last week, and since then, I've been reading everything I can find online. I was very happy to find this forum. Our situation is that I was married once before for almost 10 years, and it ended in...