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The book, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy, by Jessica Fern happened to show up in my Amazon list of suggested books - not surprisingly as I've ordered the Kindle versions of a couple dozen or so poly-related books from them, but it's been a couple of years since I've...

This article seems to be making the rounds lately - my long distance partner just posted it to the poly FB group that she moderates - and I noticed it linked on three other poly FB groups that I monitor as well. So thought I would share it here as well. While it might be of particular interest...

Another Poly PSA: Multiamory's most recent podcast is an interview with Tristan Taormino, author of the highly regarded poly text: Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships. https://www.multiamory.com/podcast/301-solo-polyamory-with-tristan-taormino

Just a PSA for fans of the Polyamory Weekly podcast - After an 8 month hiatus, Cunning Minx has posted a new podcast - aptly entitled "Where the fuck have we been?". https://polyweekly.libsyn.com/588-where-the-f-ck-have-we-been

This came across one of the FB poly groups that I monitor - just for fun, I thought I would share. :) Not a musical masterpiece, but good for a smile. (Apologies if this has been posted before - I seem to recall having seen this somewhere, but not sure when or where).

My long distance girlfriend, Wendy, posted this on their local FB group - so thought I would share here as well. Some interesting thoughts. "What I mean when I say "toxic monogamy culture": the normalization of jealousy as an indicator of love the idea that a sufficiently intense love is...

After listening to a podcast on poly and science fiction in which Robert Heinlein was the lead topic of the discussion, I wrote the following email to the presenters - as I did not feel they were fully versed on his works or his life. I thought that I would share it here as well - given that...

Hi Everyone - I hope that everyone is surviving the Apocalypse. I haven't had many opportunities to post here recently. The Covid situation has resulted in my wife, Becky, and I both working at home (I actually have been working at home for some time, but now we both are), all while now...

I occasionally listen to some of the podcasts on multiamory.com, a very worthwhile poly podcast site - worth checking out, for those who have not already. I particularly enjoyed this podcast from a few weeks back - a collection of audio clips from "real" poly people...

My LDR partner posted this today (Valentines Day, 2020) on her Facebook Page. Although she confessed that she "borrowed" it from one of her local patners :) I found it wonderfully written and thought I would pass it on here. Happy ILIC Day, Poly Community! -------------------- Happy...

So apparently, some have decided that November 23 should be National Polyamory Day - anniversary of a pro poly court ruling in Canada. :) https://polyinthemedia.blogspot.com/2019/11/polyamory-day-is-coming-up-and-why.html

I saw a link to this on my FB page and thought I would share it as I suspect it reflects a gradually growing public awareness and acceptance of CNM and poly. Although personally I share Robert Heinlein's view of celebrity opinions: "The United States has become a place where entertainers and...

Video: The Tropes and Troubles With Unicorn Hunting Presented by Kale on the Relationship-Anarchy.com website. (There is also a text transcription below the video)...

Amusing poly math. :) (Click on the image to enlarge).

Last night, Sunday, October 27, the CBS News 24/7 Streaming Service (CBSN) aired a documentary on Consensual Non-monogamy. The documentary is still currently available for streaming at the link below as of this posting. At this link, there is a video for the 23 minute main documentary. I...

New Relationship Energy: What It Is & How to Deal With It How to sustain long-term relationships when you have a new crush. Posted Oct 17, 2019 on the Psychology Today website, by Elisabeth Sheff, PhD, author of The Polyamorists Next Door...

8 Pitfalls Of Being Polyamorous, Because Assumptions Can Ruin Relationships By KAE BURDO The link to this blog post was recently posted to one of the poly FB groups to which I belong, but the article is actually about three years old. But these same pitfalls do still seem to exist - imagine...

Personal Growth Through Consensual NonMonogamies Considering boundaries, facing shadows, and embracing spirit. by Elisabeth A. Sheff Ph.D., CSE (Author of The Polyamorists Next Door) Posted Aug 04, 2019, Psychology Today Website. This article is by a respected author in a respected periodical...

Polyamory Works for Them Having multiple partners can mean more pleasure, but it’s not always easy. Photographs by Yael Malka, Text by Alice Hines, Produced by Eve Lyons https://www.nytimes.com/2019/08/03/style/polyamory-nonmonogamy-relationships.html Significant 2300 word article on CNM and...

This blog post is a couple of years old but found it when surfing around today - fun read. The Switcheroo: When Openers Become Benchwarmers https://poly.land/2016/12/20/the-switcheroo-when-enthustiastic-openers-become-benchwarmers/