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So here's the thing. I have been in three serious relationships over the last year+. One ended in November of '13. One ended in July of this year and was excruciating. Another ended in October and I'm still dealing with some of the mess (we're technically still married but separated and the...

Hello there! Haven't been on in a long time... School has owned my soul for the past few semesters and I tend to keep pretty busy. I'm wondering if anyone on here has any advice or resources to give someone who's recently broken up. My spouse and I were dating someone else together for about 9...

The older I get, I wonder how many more closets I will find myself stuck in, from being queer, to being an atheist, to be trans*, to being non-monogamous... All of these pieces of my identity are valid parts of my life that are, unfortunately, contentious to some, or even appalling. (If any of...

I've been doing a lot of soul searching since then. I've realized that nearly every relationship I've ever had has been non-monogamous, some under what I would call successful and consensual conditions, and others not so much, yet it always feels new each time. I've realized so much about my...

And I could really use some advice! My fiancé (and primary partner) and I decided to open up our relationship some months back, for a number of reasons, but primarily because polyamory has always appealed to me, and I was seriously crushing on a female friend of mine. I told my fiancé when we...

I've posted a few nervous Nelly posts on here in the "New to Polyamory" section, but I'm pleased to report that I've finally decided to open up my relationship with my fiancé, and I've been seeing a friend of mine for the last month or so. Things have been going really well... My fiancé, (we'll...

Hi there, fine folks of the Polyamory.com forum! You might remember when I started posting a few nervous queries/concerns a month or so ago regarding my monogamous relationship and my hesitation to open it up. Well, since then, I've discussed things in greater detail with my SO, and we decided...

Hello all! Firstly I'd like to express my excitement at having located this group. I've been interested in polyamory for a very long time but have never been able to make it work in my own life. I've discussed it in almost every serious monogamous relationship I've had, but have never been able...