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    Looking for someone who would be willing to talk

    HI! I am wondering if anyone out there who is experienced, or sort of experienced with poly would be willing to talk to me. The situation is that I sometimes have strong feelings of insecurity and doubt about poly, and it has become hard for my husband to listen to my fears. He feels that I am...
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    No longer able to live with poly husband

    It is with great sadness that I have come to the conclusion that I can't deal with my husband who is poly and I am monogamous. From the start things went wrong with us.. he texted old girlfriends, visited them on weekends, and i was sad at home. Next he developed a sexual relationship with a...
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    Been struggling with Poly for 4 years

    My husband is poly and I am monogamous. Also there is a big age difference between us. I am older. We are very much in love and when we met my husband, P, told me he was poly and I was interested. The first experience was when he visited an old girlfriend in another state and planned a weekend...
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    not sure what to do

    I am married to a wonderful man whom I love very much. When we got married i agreed to work with him on having a poly relationship. Everything we discussed was about my being involved with a third person. With all of us being friends and potentially lovers. It sounded lovely but we didn't have...
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    Is this a good test?

    Before my partner and I get married, he wanted to "test" how we would do as a poly couple. He arranged a weekend with an old lover and I agreed to see how I would feel about it. It didn't work out as we all expected and he cut it short and came home after I freaked out when he turned off the...
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    Lying to myself

    This weekend my partner, who I was engaged to marry, has gone off to be with a woman from his past. They have been texting and sending each other photos of their genitals and he spends every minute at work texting her. I knew they were texting, but not the extent of it. He has talked to me about...
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    need some support

    I am now embarking on a poly relationship with my bf. Up until now, we have both been mono, but pretty much from the beginning of our relationship ( 3 years now), he has said he is definitely poly in his heart, he just never really acted on it. In the last 6 months, he got in touch with a...
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    new to poly

    Hi I am Leslie and am new to the forum. I have been divorced for several years and met a wonderful person, who from the beginning of our relationship has said he was poly by nature, though not involved with any one else at the moment. We now live together and he has been texting and talking on...
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