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    Reflections on polyamory and society after ~1 year of being poly

    Polyamory for me is the best option, because the monogamous, romantic relationship that lasts for a lifetime is outdated in my eyes. It is not very likely, that this romantic exclusive dream-love will become true in a relationship and if we suppose, that it will become true, we put lots of...
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    My start into polyamory, I love it and learn everyday

    It was a good decision to become polyamorous, but more precisly, I'd say, I'm on my way to it. In sommer I had an affair with a former girl friend, which was very nice and there was still the bond from our former relationship. Eventually, she wanted a steady/ mono relationship (which I don't...
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    I say I'm poly but mono woman wants me anyway

    As I'm settling my former relationship in a good way (we might even remain friends), I'm happy to feel free. Now I got to know a marvelous woman, Johanna, and we talked for a while and there were quite a few similarities. I really felt attrackted to her and I believe, she likes me, too. We...
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    Sex drive, love & confusion

    What do you know about this matter? Let me tell you my story: This is the continuation of my two other threads (search this forum for "imagination"). In short, my girl friend Claudia and me were involved in a few threesomes with a friend of mine and she fell in love with him (one could say)...
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    Social oppression, sexuality and polyamory

    Here is a summary about a patients movement (Socialist Patients collective) that started around 1970 when some doctors and patients in a psychiatry began to cooperate on an equal level. Among many other topics, they encourage people to live a free sexuality – if they feel like it- and at the...
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    My partner became intimate with another in a way that hurts my feelings (threesome)

    This is a continuation of "How to turn a monogamous relationship into a poly relationship or friendship." I started a new thread to focus more on the present situation. I have a partner, Claudia. We've been together for a year and a half now. She is in her mid-twenties. I'm in my late thirties...
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    How to turn a mono relationship into a poly relationship or friendship?

    Sorry this text is quite long, but I think you need some information to be able to answer me: Let me tell you in short my background: I think I'm kind of poly, but I regularly switch back to old habits. After some time, relationships get kind of boring for me and I get interested in some...
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