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I'm curious to hear opinions on the "third" having biological children with a primary? In my situation, Hubbs & I share a girlfriend. She is, at this point, considered a secondary partner. Our "legal" family is the primary & B is more casual. If you were me, how would you feel about B & Hubbs...

Things are going smoothly with B, though we haven't crossed any physical lines yet. Beyond a big 3-way cuddle, which is new territory but not really a big deal. I'm thrilled with the pace & we had the "rules" talk & we're all clear on everything. It's all going well. I'm having a bit of...

Over the weekend, I met a woman online. We really hit it off. Per our rules, Hubbs came with last night to meet B (my GF :D ) in person. She turned out to be amazing. ABSOLUTELY everything I hoped for, but didn't expect. Throughout the text flirting, emails & the mini-date meeting B, Hubbs was...

In other threads I notice a distinction between jealousy and envy. As in "X makes me jealous & Z causes envy in me." What's the difference? So far in my experience, they are interchangeable...? :confused: Thanks for the clarification! :D

I've become addicted to this place! There is so much to learn here, I love it! Browsing around, I see quite a few mention how it works best when primary & secondary loves get along. Am I going to like all of my husband's secondaries? I have my doubts on that. But, ideally, we could all hang out...

Over the last week or so, Hubbs & I have been really discussing & ironing out our feelings/rules/etc on a poly relationship. It is not something we ever imagined until the last year or so. Even when it first came up, it was awkward & we weren't really in the right space emotionally to truly do...

Hi there. We're new to the scene, haven't actually ventured into it IRL, but are on the lookout for an opportunity. Here's your warning: I'm insane. Lol. I'm a worrier & an over-thinker & extremely high-strung sometimes. Be gentle! :o I (Steph) am, I think, naturally poly. I crush a lot, and...

Glad to have found this site. My DH & I have been kicking around the idea of opening things up for quite a while now, as I'm very curious. Hoping to learn the ropes quickly.