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  1. jones

    self healing

    Hi everyone, after a very painful and messy break up I need to work on some self healing. my problems: I feel it my fault, from what I hear from G, J is perfect in everyway, he cares about her more than me: speaking to my bf, he says it not my fault, its them so the points I want to work on...
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    big step today

    next month I have been dating a for a year and today he met my kids, I just wanted to share, it was a lovely day :D
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    New(ish) possible partner and children

    Hey everyone, Since G and I broke up, he and J (his ex) have gotten close, much to my upset. More so, it's not me and him being together anymore. Tbh, she wants to be friends, but I can't, for many reasons. I don't want her in my life. I also don't want her in my children's life. But they are...
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    how can I move past this? can I move past this?

    hi all, I found out today that my primary thinks he loves his ex (his secondary partner) more than me and that he wish he met her in uni or when we broke up a few years ago, he wish he got with her. I am so heartbroken, I have felt second best for a long time and now its clear I am, I don't...
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    everything has changed again

    hi all, I am looking for some advice, since we broke up with J and B, B has made no contact with me despite me trying, J and G ( my primary) get to see each other at last and he was moving on till they met and now J has spoken to B again about being poly, he said no but G and J are talking about...
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    How do I deal with my heartbreak?

    I'll try and recap everything. Last October, Bob and Jane broke up with me and my primary Gaz. I was the person who was blamed. This broke my heart. Bob said he couldn't not see one of us (Gaz) and not the other person (me). I begged, pleaded for months for them both to talk to me, but I got...
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    problem with bf

    Hi everyone, me and my bf have been seeing each other for seven months, we are both on a swinger's site because that is how we keep in touch, in the past seven months he has only slept with me and one other woman, just once, they met off the swinger's site and we have said that we are mono and...
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    feel betrayed

    I am on a swinger's site and so it A, he said he will only see me and we were going to start fluid bonding but now I have seen he has meet with a woman, I know he isn't mine but I feel so sad and jealous, I am suppose to see him tonight but I don't feel like I want to, I feel I am not enough for...
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    how do I get past this?

    hi everyone, ( nearly a month ago) we heard via text my gf and her partner wanted to break up with me and G, heartbroken and numb was how I felt, I fought to get to them to see us, to be ignore... J would only text G but only text me to shout at me, I am not over them both but I keep really a...
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    heartbroken part 2

    hi everyone, I will write about what has happened before and now: We had a rough patch with J ( mine and my primary partner G girlfriend) we spoke via msn J was getting fed up with the same conversations and we asked her a few quesions: we asked about why they couldn't come on sunday...
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    heartbroken.

    hi everyone, me, j and g had a long chat last night and aired out our problems... when j first met me and g she said she thought she had to be my gf to be my g's gf. tonight we get a text off her bf saying they both no longer want anything to do with us because of me and saying I am...
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    gf problem?

    me and my primary partner are seeing j. is it common to for the other people ie my partner G and J too explore the physical side of their relationship more than the physical side of our relationship ie mine and J. J told me she sees me as her gf but it feels like we are just friends with love...
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    hi

    hi everyone, I have been seeing this guy for two months now.. we started just swinging but now I have feelings for him, I love him and he said tonight we are more than fb.. do I tell him I love him because I want to but I am so scared in losing him :( x
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    hi

    hey, sorry its been so long. me and oh, J and B had a chat, I cried, J sat there looking sorry for herself all night and kept getting up to get tissues for her 'tears'. B said nothing about how he felt so it was just me being a bitch to everyone, using everything J has said against her (her...
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    fed up part two:meeting tonight to talk

    me, oh, bf and gf are meeting tonight to talk, bf isn't happy about oh and gf dating and we are planning on talking tonight, I have written a list of problems, which I will include in this message: My problems 1.the lies to keep you and gaz together and will lie to keep your relationship happy...
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    fed up!

    me and my oh are fighting again, we are in a relationship with another couple, the boy from the couple wants to slow things down.. work on the emotional side of our relationship so he can work out how he feels (which is great) we all talked about slowing everything down and when my bf and our...
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    new problem :(

    hi everyone, I post a while ago and I have decided to forgive my gf and my bf (of nine years) however me and my bf are having trouble with my gf's bf. we both love him but he doesn't love us back :/ he says he cares for us but he treats us more like friends/fucks, we are really hurt, it seems...
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    poly relationship with another couple

    me and my partner are in a relationship with a bi couple, we are both bi so we see them both but I am finding it really hard to get my head around my bf relationship with the girl please help me move pass this so I can be happy for them both :(
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