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    Bruises angering my vanilla husband

    I've read through this thread and looked around the forums a bit and can't seem to find anyone struggling with the issue I'm struggling with right now. My husband and I are still fairly new to poly, but doing much better than we were several months ago when I was posting a bit more. He's quite...
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    Did your comfort with poly come gradually or in an epiphany?

    For those of you that struggled to come to terms with polyamory, particularly those opening up an existing mono relationship, did your comfort with it come gradually or all at once in an epiphany kind of moment? I had a really interesting experience a couple weeks ago watching The Kids are All...
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    Unbiased list of pros/cons for mono vs poly

    Hi all. My husband and I are very new to poly. We've been married for almost a year and together for five, and have been discussing the possibility of polyamory for a couple years. Over the last couple months, he's dated two different women. The relationship with the first she ended after 3...
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    Lonely and panicky. When does it get easier?

    My husband and I have been married for about eight months, together for five years. About a year and a half ago, we decided to open our relationship, but until recently we've been just "polyamorous in theory." My husband had a brief prior experience with polyamory in a past relationship, but...
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    New to poly in Seattle

    Hi everyone. I'm a bi woman married to a straight man. We always agreed more with Goldie Hawn's thoughts on marriage ("I wake up every day knowing I can walk out at any moment. It [that knowledge] that keeps things fresh.") but when great health insurance benefits were waved in our faces about 8...
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