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    Advice on Divorce For Other Partner

    I need some advice. My husband and I have been poly for 3 years now, and poly or not we've had a lot of issues. He has lied and cheated numerous times, has a gambling problem, and really an honesty issue all together. Whenever we fight everything is always my fault no matter what. Even if we've...
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    New Love Limbo.....

    I seriously hate, hate, hate, and hate when someone new comes in. I hate how it turns everything upside down within the group. A little background, I have my husband and a boyfriend who has been off and on for two years, and I just added a new one into the mix. As usual it has thrown everything...
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    Poly & PTSD

    Has anyone dealt with it? I used to be in an abusive relationship in high school and it made mono dating hard, until I found my amazing husband, but it seems to be making poly that much harder. I feel safer when I am with more than one person so I feel like I look past the flaws that most the...
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    Finding People To Date....

    My husband and I have been poly for about 3 years now. We are trying to find good places to look for other poly people or just people in general to date. Okcupid in our area for Jacksonville Florida has a bunch of people who are pretty much just looking for FWB, and fetlife has turned up people...
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    Divorce

    My husband and I are divorcing. I have had to stay in North Carolina with family because of our roommates and his girlfriend not allowing me back into their house. I found out that my husband and her were having sex and a relationship behind my back, even while I was there pregnant with his...
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    Poly in divorce filing?

    Divorce has come up pretty much because my husband and his gf won't give each other up and he's been throwing in my face that I've done the same when I've apologized and am now trying to fix it by taking it just us for however long. I got told that I either stick with him and endure what he did...
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    Would you leave or stay

    Would you leave or stay if your partner fell in love with someone they were unwilling to give up? I have now had to let them start dating again under strict rules because everyone was so depressed and I felt like I had lost my husband more. I don't want polyamory anymore but he wants us both. I...
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    I'm The Hypocrite Now

    Little back story before I get to my question My husband and I recently moved to AZ and found out we are pregnant. We moved in with the first couple we ever swung with and became best freinds with. At least until my husbands VA money kicks in and we can find a place. We have lived with them for...
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    Got another CPS threat

    My husband and I just moved to AZ and we posted an ad on craigslist looking for freinds and potential partners. Got another dumbass who emailed me saying my ad was going to be reported to CPS because I am pregnant. I am laughing so hard. Do it dude. Please I need a good laugh. That way I can...
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    Curious About Dynamics

    Well since my other thread seems to be becoming a big debate. I was curious as to how others have their relationships set up? My husband and I have rules that not only do we follow but also ask our partners to follow. They aren't anything crazy just more some general respect type rules. We don't...
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    Any secret poly groups on facebook?

    My husband and I were wondering if there were any secret groups for polyamorous people on facebook we can't do closed because not everyone in our family knows.
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    Using polyamory as a guise?

    So I have a boyfriend right now who I really like, because we are both country and click when we are together. But sometimes I feel as if he is just using poly and dating me as a guise for sex. I have brought up this feeling to him and he says he truly does care, and wants to be here to help me...
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    Called the county attorney on us really?

    I swear people are so freaking stupid. We posted on a dating site about us being polyamorous which no big deal it has others who are also openly poly on it we thought. Well apparently some people can't use freaking google to figure out the meaning and difference of PolyGAMY and PolyAMORY. We got...
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    Any Poly People In KY

    My husband and I are trying to find like minded people in Ky who want to date weither it be a couple, single, male or female. We are tired of trying things with people who don't understand poly and just use us. We are looking for someone between 18-30 will consider older if you take care of...
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    Around, and around, and around we go...

    So yeah I saw this section and figured it'd be a good way to just kinda get things out. If nobody reads it fine, and if someone does even better. Just tired of having nobody who understands. Well first things first. I am married to a wonderful husband who as the saying goes can't live with...
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    Lucky in Kentucky

    Hi everyone. Names Kate my husbands name is Jeff. We are fairly new to polyamory. We realized we were poly after trying swinging, and realizing that we didn't like the sex part as much as we liked the relationships. We are trying to find a girlfriend for us as a couple but also date separately...
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