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    Poly Purgatory - Day 1 of 4 – Heaven or Hell Just get me there!

    NRE or just Selfish Dear Kevin, You're absolutely right about poly not turning Viking into a selfish person he is making that choice over and over again because he wants things his way. I have been trying very hard to explain to him why his decisions are so hurtful. He doesn't understand why...
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    Poly Purgatory - Day 1 of 4 – Heaven or Hell Just get me there!

    Poly Hell Hey Chrissy, You're correct on all fronts. This is his first poly relationship and he is struggling mightily in this hinge position. I have not only read the article but have read her book "Love In Abundance". I know my husband has read the article. He doesn't see himself caught...
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    Poly Purgatory - Day 1 of 4 – Heaven or Hell Just get me there!

    Assumptions and Issues Dear Chrissy and Kevin, Thank you both for responding. Chrissy, you're right I did make a lot of assumptions about why he wasn't willing/able to give me a small thing I needed. Unfortunately, even once he called there wasn't really a good explanation other than that he...
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    Poly Purgatory - Day 1 of 4 – Heaven or Hell Just get me there!

    Bluebird, Yes I saw that after Kevin pointed it out. Sorry for the confusion. Happy Spring/Easter
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    Poly Purgatory - Day 1 of 4 – Heaven or Hell Just get me there!

    Questions are good. Hey Kevin, Questions are good they get my brain unstuck from the less helpful things it gets mired in. I hope and expect to know more about how they expect their dyad to affect mine and the Viking's dyad as well as how much overlapping we're willing to try. How their...
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    Poly Purgatory - Day 1 of 4 – Heaven or Hell Just get me there!

    Ahhh Yes I am sorry for the confusion. Dear Kevin, Your deduction about the V is correct. N=Viking, my husband the hinge. Viking is a nickname that I write about him as on another blog. N is the first initial of his name. LeeAnn (L, LA) = purplepeach72 and M=GF. M is the first initial of...
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    Poly Purgatory - Day 1 of 4 – Heaven or Hell Just get me there!

    Confused? I'm in a V with my husband, Viking as the hinge between myself and his GF, M. How does that not match my signature line or the above post? Thanks, LA
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    Poly Purgatory - Day 1 of 4 – Heaven or Hell Just get me there!

    Hey KD, Yes it is a V right now with me, Viking and GF. We will plan to all spend time together at the June visit. Thanks for sharing you dark time with me. I've always struggled with depression but this is very different for me. Like most things involving personal growth I suspect we just...
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    Poly Purgatory - Day 1 of 4 – Heaven or Hell Just get me there!

    Poly Purgatory - Day 1 of 4 – Heaven or Hell Just get me there! It was a good day of gardening today. I deliberately took the entire day off from any and everything so I could sleep as long as I wanted and plant pretty spring bulbs all day. Now comes the nasty part of cleaning the house until...
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    Life and Times of the PurplePeach

    Rebuilding Trust - 6 Weeks In Rebuilding Trust – 6 weeks in My first post here was about “How do you rebuild trust?”. We are working on it. The big “Reveal” for me was Feb 18. The GF’s “Reveal” happened about 2 weeks earlier than mine. I won’t go through the whole scenario again but the...
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    Going from Swingers to Poly, plus BDSM. HELP!

    Chiming in I'm fairly new on this forum and came here with my own issues involving my relationship moving from primarily one of a swinging couple to both of us being poly. We are still working on this very difficult transition. I was poly before my husband and we read several books(including...
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    Life and Times of the PurplePeach

    3 Years Later Here we are Post Valentine’s Day 2015 It has been 3 years since I wrote the blog post above on the sex site where I met my husband. Our relationship started in an open way with each of us free to enjoy sex with others. Of course we had rules and guidelines but we worked through...
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    Life and Times of the PurplePeach

    Love on a Sex Site? Love On A Sex Site? Yes It’s Possible. Late November 2010 I was searching the matches on this wonderful sex site for new FWBs. Sgt. Sugar was about to ship out, I had finally gotten MM out of my bed for good and I wanted to have someone new to play with. I had been...
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    Italy: V Triad

    Hi, I'm an American living near Verona. Currently in a V (FMF) with my husband as the hinge. Good luck in your search.
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    in Italy

    I'm an American living in northern Italy near Verona. Ciao! (Sorry that's about the extent of my Italian)
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    How do you rebuild trust?

    New love doesn't have to come between us Well I suppose it depends on how you read the relationship plan/contract. We're sending it to her to get her feedback and input so she will have a say. We don't think that new love has to come between us. Keeping our love epic doesn't mean we can't...
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    Life and Times of the PurplePeach

    Relationship Plan/Contract Cont'd Part 3 Short Term Goals Cont’d We will exhaust all reasonable avenues to determine the cause of multiple miscarriages and pursue fertility treatments to have a baby. We have agreed to seek IVF/IUI from a reputable international clinic that specializes in...
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    Life and Times of the PurplePeach

    Relationship Plan/Contract Continued Rules of Engaging Others: We have agreed that we both need the excitement and stimulation of adding other people to our lives. We accept that we are both poly and capable of loving more than one person at a time without damaging our relationship. Extra...
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    Life and Times of the PurplePeach

    Since my life is now more focused on making a poly relationship work I figured I need to bring more of my writing here for feedback. I'm starting from my current reality and working backward. I'm a 42 yr old bi-sexual poly married woman. This is a 3rd marriage for both myself and my...
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    How do you rebuild trust?

    Only TIme will tell Dear Mags, Thank you for all your thoughtful replies and responses to this mess I'm in. I spent a considerable amount of time reading the parts of your blog you mentioned and the sites you referenced plus a few more of my own. In the end I just have to conclude that there...
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