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  1. Valynn

    Parallel Poly Ups & Downs

    My relationship with JR these past months has seemed to be idyllic. We see each other multiple times a week & I run D&D for him and most of my family almost every Sunday. But sometimes I feel like something is off. Like there is something I am not seeing or isn't right. I know I have PSTD...
  2. Valynn

    Not sure where yhis belongs but...

    My son Dexus & I have a really good relationship. I told him he could come to me with any questions and I would try to provide an answer. Two says ago he threw me for a loop. He asked me about Poly and told me that he and his friend Carlos have been seeing the same girl, Emily. Carlos is...
  3. Valynn

    Does such a term as CRE (Continuing Relationship Energy) exist?

    I was talking to JR last night and I had a bit of, epiphany, to a point. I said that we are now into a CRE phase of our relationship, since we are nearing a year together. We are no longer so goo goo eyed over each other. Though we still have alot of PDA moments. Now my question is as stated in...
  4. Valynn

    Mourning my lost relationships & looking forward

    I feel drained, hollowed out to a point. I came into my relationship as a friend and a equal. But in the end I realize that Angela did not see me that way. She saw me as a quick fix/or a sex toy, to be used and discarded as she wanted. And when I refused to bow to her demands & fell in love with...
  5. Valynn

    What the HELL happened?!

    For some backstory http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=118307 For 3+ months we have been doing well, or so I thought. Then this weekend happened. Things looked good: Early August, I went away on a week long vacation to a HUGE medieval event call Pennsic in PA, run by the SCA...
  6. Valynn

    Unconsciously primary/secondary?

    Ok, out of the blue last month, Anglea, JR & I have become a triad. Which we all enjoy our time together. We have talked boundaries & have agreed on certain social 'requirements'. Them being the established, long term couple, they both think that their family's take on our poly relationship...
  7. Valynn

    Explaining Everything?

    I have a first date coming up on Friday. We met on NYE at a local karaoke bar. And we are really into each other. And I want to as the title says 'explain everything'. He is an older gentleman (55 to my 45), divorced with 2 older daughters (both in their 20's), former Marine who is going through...
  8. Valynn

    Are you an extrovery, introvert or ambivert?

    Which are you? I am an ambivert.
  9. Valynn

    Starting over

    I am in the beginning of a new relationship. So new that we only have had one date. We know each other from the local SCA group we are a part of. He saw my profile on Bumble and PM'd me via FB. He took me to his company holiday party that he didn't want to go "stag" to (his words). It was a...
  10. Valynn

    Poly or what?

    Looking back all of my long term relationships have turned into pseudo-poly in the long run, including my marriage. My last relationship was what I called "an amorphous configuration of friendship". I had a crush on my friend W (bi male, says he's poly). Our other friend & W's housemate B...
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