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River, I'll join in the Yay! About this thread though... Let's not hurry to give theories about the gay men - let them speak for themselves. It might just be that we don't hear much from them 'cause we're not inviting them enough. And giving theories about how they work probably isn't helping...

Tricky question. Of course, it's easily turned around. Is my love not enough for you? Do you need exclusivity, as well? Vonnegut wrote something fantastic on the subject. *shuffles through library* It's from a speech he did, for graduating students at some college. It's stuck with me. (This...

Do believe you. Just don't quite grasp the concept, I guess. Not sure what you mean. But it'll probably just end up in splitting hairs, so I'll just go with believing you. SNecail, that's probably the most sane view on the subject. Cheating, to me, implies lying and/or breaking rules &...

I'm longing for the day, myself. Mine's an awesome wingman, but a bit too green on the poly thing so far. and... Sister wife. Best word this year.

I just left a 9-year mono relationship, and recently started to live as poly. Back thern, I got by by denial. Simply distanced myself from anyone I felt attracted to, often without admitting the feelings even to myself. I believe every mono relationship needs to find ways to deal with...