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    How can I be "less"?

    Interesting. I think the point of why she'd say that was kind of glossed over in the "bisexuality" discussion, but I get what she was going for. You want her to be "more" in your life, and she's saying, "How can I possibly be everything you want, anyway? I can't satisfy you fully because I don't...
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    Codependence and drama

    Just something to mention... we need to be aware of the language we use with one another. One of the things my partner is really struggling with is feeling like he's a "failure" at living a polyamorous lifestyle because he understands certain principles but still has a hard time doing certain...
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    Codependence and drama

    This is an extremely difficult situation -- I wish nothing but the best for you and Jane. You do bring up a very good point, though. This is something I've always considered/wondered about when it comes to polyamorous relationships: all relationships are interconnected. I truly believe they...
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    My poly partner has a mono mentality...

    Here's my question: for any of you who have partners who are monogamous, what was the process of acceptance like for them? A lot of what I'm seeing is stuff I already know [and my partner knows as well]. What happens when they reach a point that they understand what's behind their feelings? What...
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    My poly partner has a mono mentality...

    Thank you guys for your responses. I was up all night thinking about this -- writing this post and reading other stuff on this site got pretty worked up, bringing all the various questions/frustrations I've had to the forefront at once. Pretty overwhelming! lol The weird thing is, he and I are...
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    My poly partner has a mono mentality...

    I am going through a lot of ups and downs with my frustration levels right now! This story will be long; I apologize in advance. I'll try to stick only to the most relevant details! My partner and I both accepted polyamory at the same time. It was in fact at the very beginning of our...
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