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    Ideal world: Future poly?

    Hi all, this is just a flight of fancy for a moment but has a serious purpose....I am writing a novel at the moment (my first!) which is a novel about time travel....anyway I am trying to put together a believable vision of the future about 2180...I figured poly would become more important and...
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    Hello again

    Hi all. I am not really a stranger. Just dropped back in today to see how everyone is doing. Way back in june last year I decided to not be in any relationship at all (or rather, just be in one with me and my kids) for a whole year. That has gone by in a whizz and is nearly over. I figured that...
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    Moving on in life

    Hi all. After my big Poly disaster (that was in reality my wife having an affair) and the end of my marriage 9 months ago I have dated a little bit but mostly spent that time on my own just healing up I guess. But now things have moved on and I have met somebody else I like. I intend it to be a...
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    Carma got banned?

    Hi everybody long time me no here. Carma contacted me and told me she has been banned from the forum out of the blue, she has no idea why.:( She did say that she got some funny arabic messages before it happened, she wonders if it is something to do with that. She asked me to investigate for her.
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    Is our time split unusual?

    I have been here a while now . I know that nothing is really new under the sun, somebody somewhere must be doing the same, but I was wondering if anybody else on here has a similiar time split to us: My wife lives with me at our house for 4 nights (sun-wed) and then she goes and lives with...
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    Not about poly: Homeschooling why?

    There seems to me to be a kind of mania about homeschooling in America. I wondered why this is. This is only my own opinion but it occurs to me that different sections of the population are not integrated and don't want to be, they don't like their kids picking up "bad" ideas from mixing with...
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    Positive things as a mono I have gotten from poly

    Thanks again sage for starting this thread. I am fast finding this my favourite place to unload on, mainly it is just a process of reviewing things for myself, but I hope it will perhaps be of use to other "new" monos. (Of course I have always been mono so not new- but have never thought there...
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    can poly be controlled?

    Just wondering? Can poly-ness be switched on and off? Is it a state of being , innate and hard wired? I feel like I am hard wired mono. I could give reasons if somebody wanted. Just wondered if someone who is poly can give reasons why they feel the way they do. So I can understand what's over...
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    my first poly injury

    Well that's it I have gotten my first injury as a result of being on this forum. :( I was on here earlier on when I should have been getting ready for work. When I realised the time was getting on I jumped up and ran out the room but the door rebounded and caught my foot. I think I have broken...
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    hope for others

    I haven't wrote much about my story yet...dunno why just not ready. But I wanted to post tonight to say that this week during my 4 days we had a sort of breakthrough. The last issue that I had that was stopping me being happy got resolved. After 9 weeks of all of us working real hard at this it...
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    What do you call yourselves?

    For the first time in 8 weeks, yesterday during an argument I referred to the other guy as my wife's "lover". She really did not like that at all. She made a point that he is NOT a lover, this is NOT an affair (we always agreed that), I am her HUSBAND and he is her OTHER HUSBAND. She really...
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    Hello I'm Vodkafan

    Hi all, A poly friend invited me over here. My wife and I are 8 weeks into a poly relationship. She fell in love with another guy, she didn't plan it it just happened. We went through a hard time where she left but came back. She was literally split between us she loves us both, so in...
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