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  1. Polycurious_Adam

    My meta is now a hinge. Is it weird to feel relief?

    I just found out that Ms. Fisher's other BF (Pete) has just met another woman, and is now giving polyamory a try for himself. I mean, I think it's odd that he didn't consider himself a poly participant before, but never mind that. When I found out he was taking up another relationship, it felt...
  2. Polycurious_Adam

    I am so irritated today.

    Last night was a shit show. I got home from work, groceries in tow, ready to make dinner for the family so that Ms Fisher could focus on her work. She had to take a week off because we had to get the house ready for an appraisal, and it had been stressing her out. I brought home steaks, red...
  3. Polycurious_Adam

    Fellow Miners and Crafters!

    So, while I had used it for years as a source of stimulation in my cloistered, mono life, I really do like to play Minecraft. Ever since I started playing video games, I've wanted to make, or at least play a game with a fully changeable environment. I started playing Minecraft, oh, about 15...
  4. Polycurious_Adam

    I am such an attention whore.

    I didn't realize how much I thrive on attention and praise. I got a lot of it from my family growing up. I am overly sensitive of criticism, though I really believe that I'm capable of welcoming constructive criticism. I've been leaning on you guys pretty hard for that attention fix lately, and...
  5. Polycurious_Adam

    Anticipation ... can be used.

    I remember being a monogamist. It wasn't very long ago. I still remember what certain things felt like, and I'm learning new ways to use those feelings to my atvantage. One powerful feeling that I've come to know again lately, a feeling that I only really feel when I am me, and not just half of...
  6. Polycurious_Adam

    Im thinking of writing professionally...

    One of the most surprising things that I've found about myself, is the way that I'm able to express myself in words. I'm having so much fun, turning my journey into a story, and bringing people along for the ride! I love to inspire specific emotions that have no name. I feel like a court bard...
  7. Polycurious_Adam

    Having a hard time, need some of that support!

    I knew this was coming. I knew something would happen, and I would face an emotional crisis. I knew I was going to feel things, and I think I'm doing a good job of confronting it right now. My partner and I have yet to sleep together since I realized I'm poly, and we've been waiting for an...
  8. Polycurious_Adam

    I love you guys!

    I just realized that I have more likes on my comments than I have comments. Maybe that happens to a lot of newcomers, I don't know. But I've never felt so quickly welcomed into a community, and it's exactly the the community that I was looking for! And it's not just the likes - it's the love...
  9. Polycurious_Adam

    I should have known!

    I joined this community just a few days ago, looking for a place to learn about polyamory. I wanted to connect with people who embrace this lifestyle. I wanted a place to feel socially accepted in my choice to try it for myself. I was scared - I felt like I was risking loosing something...
  10. Polycurious_Adam

    I just realized I took the red pill.

    Three days ago, I was a codependent, possessive, monogamist. Today I know these things about myself. I didn't realize how strong my conditioning was. It seems that using religion and mass media to manipulate people's worldview from cradle to grave is an effective way to control them. I just...
  11. Polycurious_Adam

    Looking for someone to talk to

    I hope I'm in the right place. First of all, let me just say that I'm not fishing for hookups right now. I just need to talk to some people with experience living poly. I'm starting out on my journey into polyamory, and I obviously have a lot of questions and concerns. My wife is wonderful...
  12. Polycurious_Adam

    A little freaked out, but hopeful

    My name is Adam, I am a 40 year old, white, cis male, and I'm about to start an adventure with the love of my life! I was trained to be monogamous, but I've recently been questioning if it's the right lifestyle for me. I experimented with ethical non-monogamy once, with a previous partner, but...
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