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    Burnt out by triad--now what?

    Thank you so much for your suggestions. I'm still looking for housing but it's really good to know my options. It's less stress to go through with all this knowing I have several plans (and people to stay with in an emergency).
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    Burnt out by triad--now what?

    I'm still proceeding with that as Plan A, unfortunately with school starting back up properties were all but snatched before the breakup conversation even happened. I don't have anywhere to go, not long term.
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    Burnt out by triad--now what?

    The day after the breakup, my ex took my pet rabbit to the SPCA while I was petsitting and claimed abuse/neglect. This is. Beyond petty. I'm so disappointed. I have people standing by to adopt the rabbit back when it becomes available (either it died from dehydration sustained when Gideon was...
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    Burnt out by triad--now what?

    You hit the nail on the head. I think instant gratification was my problem with Jaymie and disrespecting my own boundaries was my problem with Gideon. After a lot of time to think, I've come to the conclusion that he sees other people's boundaries as a threat rather than an accent to a...
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    Burnt out by triad--now what?

    Thanks for your input, guys, I guess I've confused some of you, but since I've never been in this situation--how do you pick a roommate? That's all me and Jaymie were supposed to be originally, no one thought anything would happen, we just knew each other as acquaintances. I can't imagine living...
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    Burnt out by triad--now what?

    My partner Gideon and I were long distance for several years. He started dating his partner Jaymie before I was able to confess romantically to him, so adding Jaymie into our childhood-long friendship was a bit awkward for me, especially since I got a terribly rude impression of them when I was...
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