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  1. jones

    self healing

    I do yes, if he could see J more he would, when he sees her he is gone for a day or 2 when I see A its for about a hour maybe 3 or 4 if I am lucky :( I am somewhat detached from him, not sure if I love him or not as he is never nice anymore. emotionally: I feel I am in the stages of grief, I...
  2. jones

    self healing

    :( he knows what to say to hurt me so right now he is just being mean and hurtful :(
  3. jones

    self healing

    thanks for your reply, the things is I have a lovely sweet amazing guy and have been with him nearly a year and he makes me so happy and feeling very loved up but G is jealous because I have something he can't have with J but the thing is I can't marry A or have children with him, he is going to...
  4. jones

    self healing

    yes she is prefect and I am not, he explained to her she is sexy ( check) funny (check) beautiful ( check) a geek (check) a burlesque dancer ( check) good job ( I am a stay at home mum to his kids) but I am not her..
  5. jones

    self healing

    I can't move but I can look after the house alone but he can't go now he says but hates me and makes things so hard all I want to do is get out of the house and away from him :( wish me and the kids could get away from him
  6. jones

    self healing

    thank you, we spoke today and it didn't end well, he resent me because I am happy with A and he hates being around me but won't move out because he has no where to go so he says. he says I leave him to babysit for a few hours a day while or stays the night at J or goes to london for a week. i...
  7. jones

    self healing

    he spends time away and I see A a lot but we still live together and we just fight all the time, he hates me and tbh I hate him when he treats me like crap.
  8. jones

    self healing

    he needs to move out, he tells me he hates me and doesn't want to be here but yet he hasn't moved out and J won't have him.
  9. jones

    self healing

    thank you, I am feeling better, G feels we don't get on anymore, there are other things as well of course but yes I need to work on the whole 'I hate you because you made G do this' G did all this hurtful things not J ( she did some but not though g, off her own back) but saying that I don't...
  10. jones

    self healing

    Hi everyone, after a very painful and messy break up I need to work on some self healing. my problems: I feel it my fault, from what I hear from G, J is perfect in everyway, he cares about her more than me: speaking to my bf, he says it not my fault, its them so the points I want to work on...
  11. jones

    big step today

    thank you everyone, we were both nervous but it went really well :D
  12. jones

    big step today

    next month I have been dating a for a year and today he met my kids, I just wanted to share, it was a lovely day :D
  13. jones

    New(ish) possible partner and children

    It's not about not liking her at all. It's about what she has done, calling herself Mummy Jen and so much more.
  14. jones

    New(ish) possible partner and children

    Report me then. I am asking for advice on how to one day be ok with this, not asking you to tell me I am a nut. Thanks for making me feel worse than I already do. If you don't like what I am posting, you can leave.
  15. jones

    New(ish) possible partner and children

    If he had good reason to, yes, it would be ok, and I would understand. Like I have said before, I am not ready right now. In a year or whenever I will come to deal with it.
  16. jones

    New(ish) possible partner and children

    Did this happen right away, or was it a certain time between breaking up and your son having a step-mum? I am just not ready now, but I am being made to feel childish because I am not ready. If they asked me or G to see her, then it would be different. But they aren't asking that. So I am...
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