update - well not in denial anymore. I just found his break up email in my junk mail today. It was one paragraph blaming me for everything, and that he is better off without me. I think it's the other way around now. I think my husband and I really got lucky he did this now, and didn't have the...
Thank you all for your advice, as yes a month is very short but exactly as you said I figured I would have hit the anger stage. I just don't know why I can't accept it yet.
I would actually move us if we could. It's just our whole family is here, our home, our jobs. My ex (God even that word...
Thank you for your words, and I am sorry to hear about your losses as well. I am trying to take care of myself, and I am failing. Then I feel guilty because I know this stress is hurting my first and only baby.
How did you get past letting go in your break up? I know time is supposed to heal...
So it's been quite some time since I have been on here. I had been busy living happily with my two husbands for the last 3.5 years. My legal husband and I have been together 10 years now married 7. My other husband were together 3.5 years. Last month 2 weeks after we found out we're finally...
Again, this is more about protecting those I love ... not hiding from fear or judgement. I am a strong outspoken woman, and if things were my way this would have been handled ages ago. Anyways, I appreciate all the feedback and wish us luck. ;)
Thank you snowmelt. I almost missed your response for some reason. I am glad to see you can see both sides of the story. Also it's not as easy as GalaGirl claims it to be. Might be for them, but until you walk someone elses shoes..... Also my husband never wants his family to know, and of course...
Welcome to the site. Yes there is some great information on this site. I have found it very helpful. How long ago did you split with your third, and how did you handle it? <- sorry if that is too personal don't feel obligated to answer.
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Thank you for the welcome, and the friend request. I am looking forward to getting to know you better.
Jane, thank you for the welcome and wow yes I can see we have a lot alike!! It's great to see hear that, and know it not only works for me but others. :) Thanks for the link I will check it out. I am jealous you have land that is a dream of mine. One day....