I just found out my gf has 4 bfs total. I knew she had one other. But I told her I don't have a problem as no one gets left out. She says we all get the same time with her but I don't think that's true and then I asked her if she hasn't been talking to me as much because of that And she said yes and I'm the only one that knows about all 4. I love her and want her to be happy. I just don't want her to be stretching herself to thin and it causing rifts in our relationship. Like I've said before I'm new to poly and just trying to figure out how I can make her happy and myself. I don't want her to be stressed out. I know its hard to understand I have problems putting my thoughts into words. I'm just need advise to help guide me to be able to make sure she and I can have a strong happy healthy relationship.