A Question for the Guys

Bsweet2Bev

Bsweet2Bev

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This may seem like a weird question but I’m wondering what guys are most attracted to in women. My late husband was very much a boob guy. My current boyfriend is as well. Is T&A a standard things with guys as far as attraction? Personally I’m very much an eye person when it comes to attraction. That song from the 90’s about getting lost in his eyes is very much describing how I am.

Why I’m asking about this specifically is I’m wondering if a woman who’s lacking in the boob department either by mastectomy or just really flat chested is a big deal. I know boob jobs are the thing for older women like myself. I don’t think I could put myself through that personally but I know women who really want their puppies front and center. Are there other things men find an instant attraction to? Like walking into a bar are men looking for the Kardashian curves? Just curious to see what you guys have to say.
 
I'm not a hetero guy, but I am a non-binary, pansexual person. Does that count? lol

I like boobs. But boobs don't have to be big to be attractive. I actually hate the look of fake augmented boobs, unless they are not overly inflated and look really natural. Breasts are supposed to be soft and fall to the side when you lie down. To me, it's not attractive when a mature woman's breasts point to the ceiling when she's on her back.

With any kind of cosmetic surgery, don't do it for others. Do it for yourself.

Walking into a bar, the last thing I am looking for is a Kardashian. I do find an hourglass figure attractive, but I guess, as a Hollywood Golden Era fan, Marilyn Monroe would represent that for me. However, a smaller-breasted more boyish figure is also appealing to me. I'd rather be with someone who uses fashion to make the most of what they've got, rather than spending thousands of dollars to get silicone bags put in. I know some women have bad reactions to the silicone after a while too, and end up having their implants removed.
 
I think Marilyn Monroe was a truer representation of a woman’s body than a Kardashian could ever be. Great point.
 
Hi Bsweet2Bev,

For me I guess looks are important in the beginning. However, as time goes by, personality becomes more important. A woman with a good personality is attractive, if it makes sense for me to put it that way.

As far as the physical attractiveness goes, I am interested in "the whole package," face and body. I would feel confined with just a T&A view of things. And I don't conform to ideal stereotypes, for example any size of breasts can be attractive to me.

Anyway that's my perspective.
Kevin T.
 
When it comes to a body I like curves. Boobs are certainly a factor there, but also hips, thighs, butt, shoulders, a curved faces, etc.

However, that’s just the looks, because the real person is more important to me overall. Curvy assholes exist too.
 
Am I allowed to chime in as a bisexual?
I do not care for boobs at all. Do however appreciate the hourglass figure as well as mentioned above, but for me connecting through the soul comes first, no matter what the looks are.
 
Wocky said:
When it comes to a body I like curves. Boobs are certainly a factor there, but also hips, thighs, butt, shoulders, a curved faces, etc.

However, that’s just the looks, because the real person is more important to me overall. Curvy assholes exist too.
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Yes, curvy assholes exist as long as there is a mouth attached to the body lol. It seems that as guy ages he appreciates a more full bodied woman. Obviously I was referring to the initial attraction then personality, compatibility and chemistry come into play after that. I’ve met men that tick all my physical “boxes” but have bored me to tears.
 
Breasts do not matter for me so much. It mainly is the curves and the eyes for me from a visual perspective. Connecting through the eyes and the things unsaid.
 
Bsweet2Bev said:
I’ve met men that tick all my physical “boxes” but have bored me to tears.
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Yeah, men often bore me to tears too. Fortunately my hobbies seem to have many more women. An oddity of me, but a positive one!
 
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