Polyamory
Hi guys,
I have had a situation occur and I need some better understanding/advice on how to react and feel.
So, over the weekend my partner (female) and I (male) had a threesome with another guy who we also had a threesome with a month ago.
Which we have a couple of rules but our main one is, we both are present and always play together, in the same room. Not alone.
I noticed during the threesome it was mainly the two of them going for it and I wasn't getting much of a say or involvement. (which does not bother me, I enjoy watching)
The part that bothers me is, once we had finished we all crashed out on the same bed.
I woke up about 30 minutes later to the sound of my wife moaning, so I got up and got a drink came back and looked her in the eyes with the "what the f are you doing look" and left again and went to the couch. (which is in earshot of the bedroom)
I then hear her tell the other guy "oh, I think he's angry" which he replied "do you want to go and talk to him make sure he is OK"
What also bothers me even more is she said no and decided to stay there and have sex with the other guy.
About 30 minutes go by and I need to go to the bathroom, so I walk past the room and see them both asleep in each other's arms.
Unsure how to handle or feel about the whole situation, with the rule of playing together, I feel betrayed in some sense.
Any advice please?
I have had a situation occur and I need some better understanding/advice on how to react and feel.
So, over the weekend my partner (female) and I (male) had a threesome with another guy who we also had a threesome with a month ago.
Which we have a couple of rules but our main one is, we both are present and always play together, in the same room. Not alone.
I noticed during the threesome it was mainly the two of them going for it and I wasn't getting much of a say or involvement. (which does not bother me, I enjoy watching)
The part that bothers me is, once we had finished we all crashed out on the same bed.
I woke up about 30 minutes later to the sound of my wife moaning, so I got up and got a drink came back and looked her in the eyes with the "what the f are you doing look" and left again and went to the couch. (which is in earshot of the bedroom)
I then hear her tell the other guy "oh, I think he's angry" which he replied "do you want to go and talk to him make sure he is OK"
What also bothers me even more is she said no and decided to stay there and have sex with the other guy.
About 30 minutes go by and I need to go to the bathroom, so I walk past the room and see them both asleep in each other's arms.
Unsure how to handle or feel about the whole situation, with the rule of playing together, I feel betrayed in some sense.
Any advice please?