Polyamory
I'll share mine first!
I am polyamorous, but I always find it hard to connect to partner/s the same way they do with people they do have sex with. Yes, I know every relationship is different and you can get different needs from different people. This is more about relationships where it's like I am dating person A and person B, and A and B are dating each other, the classic triangle! But it's been A and B are closer to each other than I am with them.
I wish if people really valued sex as an important part of building the relationship for them, they would just say so. And it's not like I try to be sneaky about the fact I'm ace. I let people know first thing after going over the basics.
I am polyamorous, but I always find it hard to connect to partner/s the same way they do with people they do have sex with. Yes, I know every relationship is different and you can get different needs from different people. This is more about relationships where it's like I am dating person A and person B, and A and B are dating each other, the classic triangle! But it's been A and B are closer to each other than I am with them.
I wish if people really valued sex as an important part of building the relationship for them, they would just say so. And it's not like I try to be sneaky about the fact I'm ace. I let people know first thing after going over the basics.