P.S. Thanks for the birthday wishes, Shaya.
I've been wondering about that too, a few times. I don't get always a drop, but if we go really intense, I can get one for several days. It seems irresponsible - on the other hand, some of those scenes stay in memory for years.Still... point being, I end up with more or less a sex/kink hangover. And given that I decided weekly hangovers were Not OK when it comes to drinking, it seems that I shouldn't do it with sex otherwise.
Can you schedule alone time, or, say, "movie together" time? So that you get some rest?And emotionally... I was talking with Tinwen about subdrop but it's not just that. I mean, that's part of it. Intense kink -> intense endorphins -> rebound. And I know that, and can kind of compensate for it... kind of. The knowledge doesn't keep me from being cranky and sad and that feels unfair to Knight, having fun with someone else and then he gets the worst part of me.