My wife and I (49f/45m) have been married for 17 months now, we have been enjoying the poly world since just before we got married. I only share her, I never get involved and i mostly just hear about what happened (i like it this way). Our goal is for her to reach 100 partners, and right now she is at 36. She had a bit of a poly relationship in het previous marriage, where as for me this is my first ever marriage and still all very new.