Polyamory

Well hello,

So let me start. I've been married for 3 years. We went into this with clear idea to open up when we'd built a solid relation. But now I see it's not gonna happen. We've try different approaches to conversation, support, trips, and mentoring. No differences, She is full time in monogamy now. I get the ultimatum: stay with me in mono or we need to divorce.

So here I am struggling to find any perspective on any of the possible decisions that would not be harmful and actually lead to happiness. There is a little one with us, a 1-year old, awesome boy.

So I definitely have some ideas of how to make it awesome. I just spend too much time in my own mind and need to meet my ideas with reality, poly reality, with how awesome and demanding it is. If you feel triggered by this, feel free to say hello. I'm here for meaningful and exciting conversation.

A bit about me: 39, entrepreneur, adventure sports, Imagineer.

I feel polyamorous at heart, always have. But I live in a world built on monogamy, and it’s never felt quite right for me.

I’m here to explore what’s real: can we build deep, meaningful relations, with freedom of love, location, and experience? Can it stand the test of time?

I’m not chasing casual. I’m exploring conscious. I value presence over possession. Love without cages. Devotion without control. And i really wanna make the most of this life.

I’m drawn to raw, honest and exciting conversations, expansive minds, and wild hearts.

Let’s see what we can create. Let's have a conversation that will make us feel alive.