New member
My name is Tabitha! I'm 26, queer, and in the USA. I'm not new to Poly, but I am recently single, and since my local Poly group stopped meeting about a year ago, I thought I might try an online forum. It's always good to have a group to bounce ideas off of! Poly was something I came to early in life, and I'm so glad I did. I had a lot of struggles growing up with always feeling like I had to choose one thing or another, first in terms of my sexuality, and then later in my relationship styles. So Poly was a natural fit for me! I used to be much more active in the local Poly and Kink scene, but my last relationship, while it ended amicably, was very toxic, and it's left me more than a little unsure of myself, so Ive stepped back to reevalutate and relearn myself, especially now that my familiar group is gone.

I'm looking forward to getting to know all of you!


Official Greeter
Staff member
Greetings Tabitha,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I hope Polyamory.com can become something of a new family for you, since it sounds like your local poly peeps have kind of petered out. Have a look at our various threads ... See what calls to you ... Let us know if you have any questions. It's great to have you with us!

Kevin T., "official greeter" :)


There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

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Welcome aboard!


New member
hello there

I just wanted to say hello..

so Hello