Southern lady here! I am a married 35 year old who is mono. I’ve been married to my poly husband for 10 years. Poly is something he’s been involved in on and off for about three years. He had a LDR for almost two years till things got to be to much for me to handle and he ended the relationship. We focused on us for a bit and he’s now venturing out again into the vast poly world. I have spent a lot of time reading books and listening to podcasts to better understand this lifestyle. I am happy to find this site! It has been very helpful with finding resources and reading about other ppls experiences.