How many people have given up on finding their Soulmates?

How many people have given up on finding their Soulmates?

  • I've given up on finding my soulmate/s.

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • I haven't given up on finding my soulmate/s.

    Votes: 3 23.1%

  • Other.

    Votes: 10 76.9%
  • Total voters
    13
I'm not sure everyone has (a) soulmate/s, and maybe it doesn't matter. Love is so hard to find, maybe it's good enough if we can find (a) good match/es. Perhaps the question could even be asked, "What is a soulmate?" I haven't given up on that search, but I admit I'm not looking hard either.
 
kdt26417 said:
I'm not sure everyone has (a) soulmate/s, and maybe it doesn't matter. Love is so hard to find, maybe it's good enough if we can find (a) good match/es. Perhaps the question could even be asked, "What is a soulmate?" I haven't given up on that search, but I admit I'm not looking hard either.
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Yes, I really like your answer kdt, I feel it's a form of self evident love without the trickery involved. Like the idea of having a mind, you wouldn't have to convince your mind that it's your mind. That's what I'm getting at in a Sense.
 
First you have to define soul mate.
 
I would say that first we need to define soulmate.
 
My late husband was my soulmate and I have my doubts that I will find another one in my lifetime. It’s like trying to catch lightning in a bottle.
 
I guess I kind of don't believe in soul mates and never have. I've met a man and a woman and they are great for me, a thousand times better than anyone I ever met. They are my people and I'm happy, but neither they nor I are perfect. There is no such thing. And meanwhile, I'm not naive enough to believe that if they were gone that there would be NO one else in the world I could like as much or better (and the same for them with me). The odds of finding those people are more difficult. In short, I think love and relationships, and even monogamy (polyamory too) all work better when people don't start out by accepting and relishing in Romantic myths.
 
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