KinkyZenMaster
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Howdy! 
(I’m in Houston, and we’re required by Texas state law to greet that way…just saying.)
I am KinkyZenMaster…because I am quite Kinky…and I’m a 5th Degree Master Black Belt in Tae Kwon Do (and black belts in seven other martial arts, so have been doing that awhile)…and with the martial arts came an appreciation for Zen…but am also into all aspects of BDSM and so am a Master (as in a Master/slave relationship).
My username here is also my username on FetLife (profile link is below) so if you know me on there or would like to know me, feel free to reach out (I do bite, but you’ll love that). FetLife is the world‘s largest kinky social community, with about 10 million members (and it is a free site…so come join!). Yes, I do welcome friend requests there, especially if you see yourself as a stop on my same Kinky Bus Route. I’ve been on FetLife since 2009 (just months after it started), so been there, done that and have the t-shirt.
Sometimes life defies any goal to provide a simple answer and such is the case when considering who am I and why am I here? But to take a whack at it:
So, Why Am I Here?
Simple, I’ve been in a “Mental Polycule“ for quite awhile, but am as suggested by the words of the immortal Walt Disney - moving forward! A Mental Polycule you say? (I hope you did say that…or the “voices” are back)
What I mean by that is that I’ve been living Poly in my mind for like forever…but apparently it wasn’t the right time as my then succession of partners (i.e. failed relationships that just weren’t right) didn’t feel the same way. So, this go ‘round my partner and I agreed from literally day one that we wanted to be Poly…because…well, because we both ARE Poly (although she is a German Who lived in Sweden for 10 years, so she pronounces it way different than I do). Which seems like a perfectly good reason to do this thing we do. So although our relationship is newish, we’ve been in a Polycule (of two) since the beginning. We met on FetLife in my Power Exchange Group, and it was for us both like catching lightning in a bottle.
But as luck would have it, or as I like to say - I’ve managed to catch lightning in a bottle for the second time…because we are in the last bit of the vetting process regarding our hopefully new third…for that often sought Triad (or Throuple). We met her on FetLife (I keep saying it, you really should go check it out!), and she is quite likely to become my second submissive and our Polycule third. And in true Triad form, she will be an age gap for both my primary partner and I, as “new submissive” is about to turn 25. But for us, age doesn’t mean a whole lot as we aren’t suffering from “ageism” (or any other forms of bigotry). She is bisexual, as is my primary, so all that is going on, as well as that necessary (for us) romantic love developed amongst all three of us. Yes, truly lightning in a bottle kind of stuff (and yeah, have both a meme and a writing about that metaphor).
So…to the point, in any practical hands on sort of a way, Poly is new for all of we three. And as I’m a big believer in learning and growth (both in Kink as well as in Life), I hope to learn more about Poly and those type of relationships. Hopefully fill my toolbox with all manner of useful stuff.
But Wait, there’s more! (anyone remember SNL and Ronco?) I have on FetLife what is referred to as a “house” which is a kinky way of saying that it is a place for my extra special people in my life. It’s called Dragonfly House (a story for another time, but meanwhile see the FetLife link above), and is essentially a way to gather up kinky like minded folks for our own special Poly BDSM Polycule (if that fits you and you are a submissive, stop by for a cup’a hot beverage and some convo). So, in short we intend to have this kinda closed Triad, that sorta kinda has a special secret open back door when it comes to BDSM Power Exchange Relationships. And to sort all that out, yeah, need more knowledge skills tools things. Oh, and of course am always open to other kinky ass Poly potential submissives to perhaps join Dragonfly House.
That’s my story…and am sticking to it. But please know that I’m a pretty friendly guy who likes to meet and befriend kinky folks, Poly or otherwise. So say howdy back to me, and perhaps even join me on the bus ride.
I am KinkyZenMaster…KinkyZenMaster am I.
Dan
(I’m in Houston, and we’re required by Texas state law to greet that way…just saying.)I am KinkyZenMaster…because I am quite Kinky…and I’m a 5th Degree Master Black Belt in Tae Kwon Do (and black belts in seven other martial arts, so have been doing that awhile)…and with the martial arts came an appreciation for Zen…but am also into all aspects of BDSM and so am a Master (as in a Master/slave relationship).
My username here is also my username on FetLife (profile link is below) so if you know me on there or would like to know me, feel free to reach out (I do bite, but you’ll love that). FetLife is the world‘s largest kinky social community, with about 10 million members (and it is a free site…so come join!). Yes, I do welcome friend requests there, especially if you see yourself as a stop on my same Kinky Bus Route. I’ve been on FetLife since 2009 (just months after it started), so been there, done that and have the t-shirt.
Sometimes life defies any goal to provide a simple answer and such is the case when considering who am I and why am I here? But to take a whack at it:
- I’m a dominant with over 25 years experience in the BDSM and kinky lifestyle
- Very much at this point in all regards, am a well experienced Master and a Daddy/Master (a term I think I coined, because sometimes a Daddy/Dom isn’t enough…and if you’re a Babygirl nodding her head in agreement, you really should contact me!)
- My partner on this Poly wild ride is my Primary/Babygirl/slave, and we are in an Age Gap relationship of 18 years (I’m 65, she’s 47), and we are DDLG and PER (see the next paragraph to find out what that is)
FetLife Links
KinkyZenMaster - FetLife Profile
FetLife Group: Power Exchange Relationships (PER)
FetLife Group: DDLG Total Power Exchange
FetLife Profile: Dragonfly House
So, Why Am I Here?
Simple, I’ve been in a “Mental Polycule“ for quite awhile, but am as suggested by the words of the immortal Walt Disney - moving forward! A Mental Polycule you say? (I hope you did say that…or the “voices” are back)
What I mean by that is that I’ve been living Poly in my mind for like forever…but apparently it wasn’t the right time as my then succession of partners (i.e. failed relationships that just weren’t right) didn’t feel the same way. So, this go ‘round my partner and I agreed from literally day one that we wanted to be Poly…because…well, because we both ARE Poly (although she is a German Who lived in Sweden for 10 years, so she pronounces it way different than I do). Which seems like a perfectly good reason to do this thing we do. So although our relationship is newish, we’ve been in a Polycule (of two) since the beginning. We met on FetLife in my Power Exchange Group, and it was for us both like catching lightning in a bottle.
But as luck would have it, or as I like to say - I’ve managed to catch lightning in a bottle for the second time…because we are in the last bit of the vetting process regarding our hopefully new third…for that often sought Triad (or Throuple). We met her on FetLife (I keep saying it, you really should go check it out!), and she is quite likely to become my second submissive and our Polycule third. And in true Triad form, she will be an age gap for both my primary partner and I, as “new submissive” is about to turn 25. But for us, age doesn’t mean a whole lot as we aren’t suffering from “ageism” (or any other forms of bigotry). She is bisexual, as is my primary, so all that is going on, as well as that necessary (for us) romantic love developed amongst all three of us. Yes, truly lightning in a bottle kind of stuff (and yeah, have both a meme and a writing about that metaphor).
So…to the point, in any practical hands on sort of a way, Poly is new for all of we three. And as I’m a big believer in learning and growth (both in Kink as well as in Life), I hope to learn more about Poly and those type of relationships. Hopefully fill my toolbox with all manner of useful stuff.
But Wait, there’s more! (anyone remember SNL and Ronco?) I have on FetLife what is referred to as a “house” which is a kinky way of saying that it is a place for my extra special people in my life. It’s called Dragonfly House (a story for another time, but meanwhile see the FetLife link above), and is essentially a way to gather up kinky like minded folks for our own special Poly BDSM Polycule (if that fits you and you are a submissive, stop by for a cup’a hot beverage and some convo). So, in short we intend to have this kinda closed Triad, that sorta kinda has a special secret open back door when it comes to BDSM Power Exchange Relationships. And to sort all that out, yeah, need more knowledge skills tools things. Oh, and of course am always open to other kinky ass Poly potential submissives to perhaps join Dragonfly House.
That’s my story…and am sticking to it. But please know that I’m a pretty friendly guy who likes to meet and befriend kinky folks, Poly or otherwise. So say howdy
back to me, and perhaps even join me on the bus ride.I am KinkyZenMaster…KinkyZenMaster am I.
Dan
