Howdy! I have been in a few polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous relationships, but I feel like I’m in a pickle with this particular configuration. My partner of 6 months, whom I love a lot, was raised very Christian and married his high school sweetheart. They have only ever been with one another…. ever. He knew I was polyamorous and I had another partner of 2 years at the time we began seeing each other. He seems to have taken to it all rather well, healthy questions, never judgmental. Anyway, he and his spouse began speaking again. They want to begin dating to see how things go, as they have done a lot of internal work independently etc. However, she has never been in a situation quite like this, none of us have, really. I usually have a touch of jealousy and nerves upon meeting a metamour, but ultimately I’m pretty stoked about it and it has never been an issue in the past. I’ve had great times hanging out with partners partners and gotten along with them well in the past with no issue. I suppose where he and I are becoming nervous is that she may not be as accepting of it. You can imagine that finding resources on how to handle a situation such as this is fairly tricky, if not impossible. Are there any resources for her (and us) y’all would recommend? We’ve yet to all sit down and talk about it, as it’s a new development. He and I are speaking tonight and maybe setting up a time to all meet, but I for sure want to be prepared in whatever way I can to make her feel comfortable! Pretty lost on this one, we’re all in our early 20’s, mind you. Honestly, any input would be appreciated. I know this will need to be very intentional with lots of communication to foster the kind of trust and comfortability required for it to work healthily. Also, I kind of signed up for this thing on a whim of desperation. I just want everyone to feel okay with however it turns out, ya know?