MonoVCPHG
New member
I read a recent post by Nyz that got me thinking about a question that intrigues me.
Is living up to your ideals of poly more important than the relationships you have?
I’ll start ;
For me the ideals of monogamy are not more important than my relationship. Otherwise I wouldn’t be here because although I love Redpepper monogamously, I am not in a monogamously structured relationship. It’s one sided. Therefore I value the relationship over the ideals.
Thoughts?
Is living up to your ideals of poly more important than the relationships you have?
I’ll start ;
For me the ideals of monogamy are not more important than my relationship. Otherwise I wouldn’t be here because although I love Redpepper monogamously, I am not in a monogamously structured relationship. It’s one sided. Therefore I value the relationship over the ideals.
Thoughts?