WhatHappened, while your point is well taken about the pitfalls of unicorn hunting in general, the question and responses in this particular thread don't have one whiff of couple privilege that I can detect. Here is the opening post. The OP asks about the impact of additional relationships on a marriage but assumes those outside relationships are not necessarily with the couple. The OP is asking about "poly" in general. Endless examples of couple-centric intentions surely exist, but I'm not sure the schooling in unicorn hunting really pertains to the spirit of this particular thread.
For those of you who are in a committed marriage but are also in a poly relationship (or your spouse is), do you think that polyamory is BENEFICIAL to your marriage? Why or why not?