my first post in a long time, and it's a good one.


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This is my first post in... well, probably something like 8 months, I've been letting life take me where it will. And I guess sometimes it is far more important to listen, than speak, and to read, rather than write. I have only been listening for months, never posting merely to put in my own two cents, or because I disagree. And in that time, I've learned a lot, more than I could fathom.

This being said, the reason I'm posting is because the girlfriend is on a date, and although I have been worried about it for several days, I feel good. Of course, all of the insecurities still pop into my head here and there (what if this, what if that), but I feel good. I really hope she genuinely enjoys herself.

I guess this is compersion. Or some form of it.

That's all. I hope you all are doing as well.


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Congratulations. Sounds like things are coming along :)