So my metamour is out of town, and I wasn't expecting to talk to him. My husband and I were having some "alone time" when I get a call from an unknown number. Worried it might be an emergency, I answered the phone. It was my metamour calling to say hello & tell me he missed me. He's camping, and hiked out to a pay phone just so he could call and say hello. I knew it was a bad situation, and I didn't know what to do, so I just chat for a few minutes and then got off the phone. When I hung up, my husband was upset because we had been having sex, and next thing I'm on the phone telling my metamour I love him & miss him too. I know this was a bad situation, and it was not handled perfectly, but it was an unusual situation. How can I get my husband to see it was an unusual thing, and it doesn't mean I don't care about him, I just honestly didn't know how to handle the situation. Normally I would just say I'll call you back, but this was a unique circumstance. Help!