Again, thank you for your time, effort and thoughtfulness. It means more than I can express.I am not sure what this means. Do you mean you build things up in your head so big that they feel impossible to deal with?
When I talked about making a case I realized I was waiting for it to build to the point where it was big enough to be worth the risk to mention. You have helped me realize that taking the more direct approach is better. Even if it as simple as saying that I would like to talk about me being open so I can at least explore the options and have a conversation about what I would like.
Everything else has been very spot on. I am going to take a deeper dive into entanglement. It may be the heart of the issue. I also have work to do on being more direct. I think the simplicity of telling her that I wish to open a dialogue will benefit us both.
P.S. Sorry to all for the poor format. I will get it figured out.