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Hi! My name is Wendy and I'm in an open marriage. We've been open since March. My husband has a secondary partner. Its ironic because we opened our marriage for me and my secondary has moved on. We have 3 children. They know we are open but we try to keep our activity from affecting them as best we can. Our oldest is married with 3 little girls and our youngest is a sophomore in high school. Our second child passed away 3 years ago.

I'm looking forward to having a community. This lifestyle can be very isolating. Other than our children and a few close friends no one knows we have an open marriage.
Welcome! I think you'll find everyone very helpful!


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Greetings Wendy,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I appreciate your sharing your intro, and a little bit of your story. So sorry to hear about your second child. It does sound like your open marriage is going well so far. If you have any questions, just let us know.

Kevin T., "official greeter"


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Welcome aboard!


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I agree about the life style being isolating
A lot of people look at my bf when he talks about other partner like are you stupid your gf sitting next to you
Then i pipe up along the lines i know and approve
Then they just drop there jaws
And if you say your poly its like your speaking latin!
Welcome to the adventure
I am a newbie as well