Polyamory
Hello all, Newbie here and really could use some advice.
Recently started seeing a poly couple and his wife just broke up with me. She said we could be friends but honestly how can you go back to something you never had?
He said he is committed since we were friends before getting involved but I don’t know how to move forward. He seems to think that it’s my problem with polyamory, which i can admit… could be a factor but I also feel that these relationships aren’t meeting my needs and that could be the underlying problem.
I’ve been educating myself as best as I can but don’t know if what i’m going through is normal, if i’m the problem of perhaps this isn’t the relationship for me. I feel very alone and after our argument… I can’t go to him for reassurance.
So i come here seeking advice. How to I continue to have a relationship with him now? I would like to but I don’t want to cause any further damage to our relationship.
Recently started seeing a poly couple and his wife just broke up with me. She said we could be friends but honestly how can you go back to something you never had?
He said he is committed since we were friends before getting involved but I don’t know how to move forward. He seems to think that it’s my problem with polyamory, which i can admit… could be a factor but I also feel that these relationships aren’t meeting my needs and that could be the underlying problem.
I’ve been educating myself as best as I can but don’t know if what i’m going through is normal, if i’m the problem of perhaps this isn’t the relationship for me. I feel very alone and after our argument… I can’t go to him for reassurance.
So i come here seeking advice. How to I continue to have a relationship with him now? I would like to but I don’t want to cause any further damage to our relationship.