New to Polyamory


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Hi, I'm PinkPig. I'm new to and new to the poly lifestyle. I'm in my early 40s and was in an unhappy, monogamous marriage for 25 years. I've been divorced for a year. Blue & I've been dating since early this year. I've been mono throughout our relationship while he's openly dated other women. We are committed and are discussing marriage. He introduced me to his most recent partner, Snow, and we are now in a closed triad. We are currently all very happy with this arrangement. At this time, we all maintain separate households as Snow and I both have teens at home. We would eventually like to merge our households into one.


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Greetings PinkPig,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Sounds like you have an excellent V (or triad?) established. I hope you'll eventually get the merged household that you desire.

Dig right in and enjoy our various boards and threads here. Let us know if you have any questions. There's a lot to be learned about polyamory!

Glad to have you with us,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)


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