Online Poly Resources


The following is an excellent read for any men in the poly or non-monogamous scenes...especially if you're asking yourself why it's hard to find a date.

Nonmonogamy for Men: The Big Picture
November 5, 2009 — pepomint
A while ago I noticed a problem in my polyamorous social circles, namely that some of the guys just are not doing that well, in terms of finding partners, dating, and generally succeeding at nonmonogamy. In particular, the guys who are new to nonmonogamy seem to make a lot of blunders. Sometimes these are spectacular and result in those guys giving up and going back to monogamy, but other times they seem to take the form of a steady failure to date, or a quickly cycling through relationships. Of course, there are plenty of men who take well to nonmonogamy (myself included), espcially those who have been doing it for a long time. That said, longevity is no guarantee of success – some of the frustrated guys at my recent class on this subject had been polyamorous for over a decade but could still not get their groove on. My hope with the discussions below is that they will help other guys hopscotch past a lot of the conceptual traps that hold us back.


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New Poly Site

A poly site that I have found that is still pretty new is it doesn't have that many members yet but hopefully will grow! :D
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How to Add a New Poly Dating/Social Networking Site to the List?

Hi, Everyone!

I wasn't sure where I'm supposed to post this - there's a new free website for polyamory, polyfidelity and open relationships called

We have created in order to bring polyamory into the mainstream by providing a more normal family and relationship based site without pornography.

Our site allows you to make groups for your specific area, which you can then link back to your own main group's home page outside our site. BeyondTwo also allows members to create individual profiles that can also have links. You can make a profile for yourself your group, your partners, etc.

All features are 100% free to use and include:
1) Friending - the ability to friend other members
2) Videos
3) Pictures
4) Blogs
5) Forums
6) Gifts – members can send each other gifts on the site
7) Privacy features – allows members to set their profile to the level of privacy they choose, whether it be for only people on their friends list to view or everyone on the site. Profiles alone cannot be viewed without setting up a free account on the site.

The site is new but growing in the three months it has been alive and we would appreciate it if you could take a look and if you like it (which we hope you do!), spread the word, and join and/or have your members join.

If you have any comments or suggestions we would appreciate that as well, as we are always looking for new ways to improve our member experience. You can message admin or me directly; my profile on there is under “Ginger Snap.”

Thank you!


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Sorry Nancyronna, I have not had the problem you described.

I did want to add a link to this thread: Polyamory Websites (same idea as this thread, but more recent)