I fell for a girl who is amazing. She has feelings for me as well as my husband. However, I’ve been with my husband for 16 years and after finding out that they two are fooling around, it made me sick. I have such strong feelings for her but I can’t share her with my husband. I can’t watch them text back and forth and have a relationship right in front of me. I’ll always wonder if I’m not enough for either of them. I want something that my husband isn’t a part of since we share every other aspect of our life. How do I deal? I can’t eat, I can’t sleep, and I’m living on anxiety pills. If I let us all be in a relationship, I’d be miserable and insecure the whole time.