Pleasing people


Thats true.. in the end, you can't please other people, its up to them

Please yourself..others will follow.

Ever hear the saying, bored people are boring people. That applies to a lot of things including happiness, pleasure etc. :)..


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I have found that the more I focus on being the best version of myself;
the happier the people around me are (including myself).

When I was younger I put a lot more focus on pleasing other people (or intentionally not pleasing them depending on the person).
But it is just a big clusterfuck.