Polyamory
I am about to form a household with several kids and more than two adults.
I would like some advice on how to build a shared economy and divide the housework. Does anyone have experience with this?
I have been married for more than ten years. We pretty much put all the money we make into one account. Each person gets to spend a certain amount on clothes, hobbies and whatever they feel like. The rest of the money we use for expenses like the house, food, health care, common vacations, activities with the kids and so on. We have insurance, so if one of us dies, the other person would be able to keep the house. We also have an agreement on how to divide money and belongings if we ever were to part. We used a model from a book about everyday feminism for this.
Are there any books (or other exhaustive resources) on this subject and how to solve it, if there are more than two adults? In my country more than two people can not have a home mortgage. Is there any way to reduce the financial risk and lack of legal acknowledgement to the people who are not part of my first marriage?
How do you divide housework fairly when each one of us has different abilities, health and working hours?
(As English not my first language, please be patient with my grammar and spelling and stuff.)
I would like some advice on how to build a shared economy and divide the housework. Does anyone have experience with this?
I have been married for more than ten years. We pretty much put all the money we make into one account. Each person gets to spend a certain amount on clothes, hobbies and whatever they feel like. The rest of the money we use for expenses like the house, food, health care, common vacations, activities with the kids and so on. We have insurance, so if one of us dies, the other person would be able to keep the house. We also have an agreement on how to divide money and belongings if we ever were to part. We used a model from a book about everyday feminism for this.
Are there any books (or other exhaustive resources) on this subject and how to solve it, if there are more than two adults? In my country more than two people can not have a home mortgage. Is there any way to reduce the financial risk and lack of legal acknowledgement to the people who are not part of my first marriage?
How do you divide housework fairly when each one of us has different abilities, health and working hours?
(As English not my first language, please be patient with my grammar and spelling and stuff.)