Hey all, we are relatively new to our journey here. I know it's new With NRE etc. and some of you will want to mentor the Newbies, offer unsolicited advice etc. but so far we are doing great. We won't hesitate to ask in areas where we feel we need help should the need arise. However our joining the website is first and foremost about community & sharing.... In any case, that being said, I'll get to my question. Did any of you here also find yourselves in a situation where all members of your Polycule met with no intention of being in a Poly relationship and but we're very happy to find yourselves in one after your initial meeting? Here's how it happened for me and my wife. We had been on Swingtowns for years as paying members, thinking that we wanted to Swing.....We had made a few connections that never panned be out...some looked to be promising in the near future previous to what I describe next. On a whim I decided to join a few Reddit Swinger subs, as did my wife. We met a couple of people where it seemed like we'd likely meet and play, then one morning there was a post by a couple that I jumped in responding to first thing....We arranged a dinner meeting after building a rapport through chat..The couple wasn't the typical type for either my wife or myself....Our dinner date went well...things progressed on to a Motel, where things unfolded with the most natural comfortable, jealousy free wonderful flow....The swinging community cautions about "catching the feels" well, this evening there was tenderness kissing etc. And we were all SO HAPPY to have met. Within a few nights both of our couples decided that we were going to go exclusive... (In chat I said "our couple" and went to clarify that I didn't want them to think I was trying to overstep and imply ownership) They immediately replied that they felt the same about us being "their couple". We all enthusiastically embraced this.We immediately got rid of all of our Swinger sites, apps and profiles. We relish every moment of every time my wife and I get to see my Girlfriend and Brother (He and I are both straight) and my wife's Girlfriend and Boyfriend) Both ladies are Bisexual and get twice the fun.We love each other and feel so much more support and love with the four of us as a unit. None of the four of us would have convinced in a Million years that we'd be in a Poly relationship before that meeting...We aren't second guessing it, as when I met my wife in 2005 it was love at first sight, she moved in two weeks later and we have been happy ever since. So I know, long story, but we never sought to be Poly...None of the four of us. Have any of you been equally caught off guard and overjoyed with the surprise?