It's easy to understand a mono, to a mono love is like a secret shared with their favorite person. To a poly love is like a weekly flyer posted on telephone poles.
I love this quote.
I was hoping to gain insight from this thread only to be discouraged.
It sounded really condescending to mono's ...
I am trying to be understanding. I could easily dismiss a poly persons heart as a person who is overly emotionally needy that they need multiple partners to feel emotionally validated (and/or they have a faint streak of emotional masochism).
but no ... I am here. to the best of my ability to listen and learn and open up a door to collect information to form new ideas and connections ...
But MAN .. what a fuckin buzz kill.
I am going to cross my fingers and HOPE that there are some people here that are active and have successfully had mono/poly experiences resulting in perspective worth soaking up ...