What has been people's experiences within the "swingers'" community? Are they really all about casual sex/n.s.a, or do they just as often make the full leap to polyamory and form real relationships?
I ask because where I live has no polyamorous groups or get-togethers, but a thriving swingers' community. I'm a married woman, my husband doesn't date outside our marriage, so he wouldn't want to "swing" with me. I have a male fuckbuddy that probably would, but I wouldn't want any man except him to touch me. I'd be there to meet women.
What holds me back is that I'm not ultimately looking for casual sex, and at this time I'm not really interested in men. In your experience, is there much overlap between polyamory and swinging, or will I only meet women interested in n.s.a sex with me, and while their man watches?
I ask because where I live has no polyamorous groups or get-togethers, but a thriving swingers' community. I'm a married woman, my husband doesn't date outside our marriage, so he wouldn't want to "swing" with me. I have a male fuckbuddy that probably would, but I wouldn't want any man except him to touch me. I'd be there to meet women.
What holds me back is that I'm not ultimately looking for casual sex, and at this time I'm not really interested in men. In your experience, is there much overlap between polyamory and swinging, or will I only meet women interested in n.s.a sex with me, and while their man watches?